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Handjobs?
I'm 17, and I am in my first serious relationship (with a guy that is) and things are starting to become sexual. I have no problem being sexual, because I am not timid at all, I've done stuff, just not with any guys. He has touched me and stuff, but I haven't done it to him, even though I want to. I guess I just dont know how to go about it, what to do durring, or what to do afterwards (like with the possible mess) Any advice?
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I think you might be making a mistake. Such relationships should be done in Holy Matrimony. I know this may sound like a sermon, but just here me out. Do you remember your first kiss? If so why? Because it was meaning full, that was something that can never be taking back. It was meaningful. When you have sex with more then one person (your spouse) then it is like I like you but just as much as these others. When you are married and engage in sexual actions it is giving your spouse the one gift that no one else can ever give him. It will make him seam more special, and that you cared so much for him you waited all this time just for him. And now think about how you would feel if your spouse saved his virginity just for YOU. Words can’t express how that would feel. Now think if you kept your self true but he did not. It would be like you some sort of trophy that he got! I don’t know how you would like that. (Who knows maybe that’s what you want) May you make the right decision for yourself my friend.
~Teen Guru~
PS Let me now if this helped you.
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Honestly the best thing to tell you to do is go watch a porn flick lol. I mean they are professionals at what they do.
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no sex,b/c babies are cutier when you are married!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok well if your ready for it then just do it. But dont be crazy about it. Like dont hold on it really tight because it hurts when you do and the try to cum. Just you know keep going and if they say there cuming dont stop you have to keep going but if you dont want sperm on your hand then tell him to grab it an finish it off. But have a rag right next to yall so he can clean up. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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It's Really not that difficult. Just don't think TOO much about it befoRe hand, as this will only woRk you up and make you neRvous.
-- TO GO ABOUT IT: it's pRettie simple. FIRST, I suggest you ask him HOW HE DOES IT.. just to get an idea of what he likes. And noooo this won't make you seem lame oR inexpeRienced at all!! DiffeRent people peRfeR diffeRent things, so even if you've given 3243475 handjobs befoRe... ONE PERSON might not do it the same as ANOTHER PERSON, so always always ask!! But you just gently gRab ahold of it, and slowly, at fiRst, move youR aRm up and down, in time incReasing the speed.
-- TIPS: they like if you'Re naked, oR at least topless... it's a gReat visiual and helps keep them eRect. They also like talking diRty. So don't hold back on that. Just tell them it's nice, it's big, how good it looks, and how bad you want it. Then you could tRy talking about how much you want theiR load, and wheRe it's going to end up [meaning: napkin, youR mouth, youR face, etc.]. And theRe's absolutely NOTHING wrong with putting youR mouth to it and swallowing his 'finishings'. NOOO, you CAN NOT get pRegnant, and NOOO you will not get sick; it's actually healthy -- high in pRotein. And the taste honestly DOES vaRy fRom peRson to peRson, so no one can tell you how it will taste. OR, if you'd RatheR.. just let it come out as it does... like on youR hand wRapped aRound him foR instance; theRe's definitely nothing wRong with that!
-- It's pRettie simple. The only pRoblem you might Run into [which you moRe than likely will] is that youR hand will get tiRed; and this is fine. Guys can do it foR long peRiods of time, because chances aRe that they've had yeaRs of pRactice, and this would be youR fiRst time, so they won't be suRpRised oR disappointed. Just if that DOES happen.. don't give up oR keep saying "I Can't", that's a BIG tuRn off!! Keep tRying, and if needed, have him do it foR a couple seconds while you stay Right theRe and watch. It's honestly not a big of a deal oR hassle as it may sound.
*I seaRched online foR you if you feel you need moRe infoRmation. PeRhaps you might like to check this site out: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) It goes into a tad bit moRe detail on HOW TO DO IT, I suppose.
You'll do just fine, Really -- no woRRies!! If you have any fuRtheR questions oR would like some moRe infoRmation, don't be afRaid to contact me. Hopefully I've been of at least SOME help heRe! :D
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he is cheating on you im your best freind i could not tell you to your face this is why im telling you on this now do i no he's cheating on you i no because he's shagging me SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! can we meet to sort things out????????????????
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Handjobs are very overrated, at 17 I think you are old enough for Oral, theres less mess that way.
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well..if your concerned about doing it right..ask him to kind of guide you..he might like that..a lot..you know..kind of move your hands on his penis the way he wants it. and then once you warm up you'll be fine! the mess shouldnt be a prob..im sure he knows what to do with it being that he probably masturbates a ton like all guys ...
obvious advice :
dont do it right on your moms beautiful blanket because you dont want cum stains on there now do you? lol
as long as you dont do it where cum can (potentially) get on things you dont want to ruin, you will be fine..
how to go about it? just get affectionate with him while watching a movie or someone private...and one thing leads to another..and your unbuttoning his pants!
you can let him guide your hand during this..or you can take charge yourself..you will be great...remember penises are sensitive so dont bend it..or hurt him..
afterwards lick up the mess! lol..im sure the guy will know how to handle it because like i said before..he probably masturbates and deals with the ejaculation all the time
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So basiclly you just want to start off by giving him a handjob? Well thats good since you are taking things slower! Hm.. I dont know tho. You really cant mess up while you are doing it and you can do it anywhere pretty much. Movies,your or his house. During, you would do that handjob L0L, and after just act normal. I mean just snuggle by him and talk to him. ♥
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