I'm taking a two week lifeguarding class and I have a huge crush on this guy in my class. You think I'd have a pretty good chance... (there are only 2 other girls in the class and about 17 guys.) But he doesn't talk! I think I've heard him say about 3 things ... "yeah" "i know" "ok". he sits kinda off by himself. The "i know" was when i told him that his shirt was backwards and inside out ... (trying to start a conversation). I'm shy myself so it's hard for me to initiate anything and just being the one to approach him was hard. how do i get him to open up a bit without being pushy? and i need to get his # within the next two weeks or i'll probably never see him again!
xOlUvChAdoX answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 11:36 pm: Even though your shy (i am to) if you really like him then you should so talk to him!! If you really do like him go for it. Don't wait around till the last day! Do whatever your comfortable with!! let me know how it goes!!
Teza answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 11:28 pm: You need to talk to him!! Since he is really shy you have the privlage to be the more outgoing one! Prove to yourself that you can talk to him and you will. Tell him to stop saying the same things L0L! I dont think he really notices tho. Ask him to come and hang out with you and some friends and some of his friends. You can just write him a note with your number or just ask him for his. I mean its better to take a chance then regret it if you think you will never see him again. Good luck!! ♥ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
icey0990 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 11:26 pm: hm..maybe invite the guy to a pool party...invite the whole class! ask for everyones number and tel them you will call with the plan..this wayy you have his number and when you call him you can be like "so i was also wondering if you wanna catch a movie?"
so say youur planning a get together...pool party..house party...trip to six flags..or something..so you can get his #...even if you dont think it will work out(the get together) ask for it anyway and tell him its because you want to plan a party..when you call you can just say it never worked out but you would like to maybe see a movie sometime. he wont be able to resist! [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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