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Everyone is saying that my boyfriend is bi! Even my bestest friends! It's really annoying! I don't think he is but everyone else does! I know I should just go with what I think and ignore all of them, but it's really hard for me to do. He is soo cool and nice and hott! And I don't want everyone thinking that, cause it might ruin my rep. too!! Help me please!!
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talk to him privately and say something like, "ok ______, people are still saying that you're bi and stuff, and its really annoying because, duh, you're going out w/ a girl (yourself)...so it doesn't make any sense. but like, i just want to know HONESTLY if you are or not...like, was there something that you said or did to make people think that? you know you can talk to me about anything..."
and don't be too aggressive about it...be understanding and accepting.
hope i helped.
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maybe people are just saying that cuz he hangs out with guys. don't listen to them. if you really love your boyfriend, then you should trust him, and not worry or believe what other people are saying.
IM me if you need any more advice! my sn is BuBbLeTrOuBLe59!
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Ok, so he may be bi? Whats wrong with that? Tell them to go cram a wine cork up their ass, along with a rose stem and maybe so hot oil. If he is, hey, you've got threesome potential. If he isn't, ok. You know he is or isn't, no one else does, it's none of their business. If someone acuses me of being gay I just shrug and say maybe I am, even though I know I'm not. I don't care what they think about me.
Reputation may be a big deal in highschool, but afterwards it's not going to mean crap. That's why I don't bother with it either. Ok, so someone thinks I'm a loser because I like Daft Punk /and/ Motley Crew? That's great. They can keep on thinking that, cuz after college.... It's not going to matter. o.O;
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I dont think he is. I mean if he was he wouldnt be going out with you. It doesnt really matter what they say because as long as you still like him no matter what he is. Just talk to him about it one more time and ask him to tell you the truth. Tell him you wont be mad and you wouldnt break up with him. ♥
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people might be saying that abecause he hangs out with guys, which i hope is all right. ask him again but you should believe him. ignore them
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wow, i had the sameeeee exact issue with my boyfriend. lemme tell ya your friends, if they dont have any proof they could just be saying their own opinion in form of an accusation. he prolly isn't bi and people were saying my bf is gay and we ended up dating for 11 months. ask him, not your friends!:)
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