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hello i hope you can help me i upset somebody some how i cant even remember how now .its a long story but every time i go out with my friends this person in particular is really nasty.im quite a quit person and i am not at all agressive and this situation is really getting me down .i want to say something back but this person is really nasty and i know there just looking for a fight i hope you can help me as iv got no one to turn to.
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Um your being sexualy harrised! You should ask that particular person why they are nasty and why they botther you. Talk to a counsluar or a friend usally everything works out. If you're really scared about this action and you don't want to get in a fight then you should avoid this person and if one of you're friends hangs out with this person you should avoid them too, well when that person is around that firend. Hope I helped bu bi SeLmA 0x`
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Why don't you try get one of your friends to talk to them and find out whats bothering them about you? Then hopefully you'll be able to solve the problem. Alternatively, you could just try to organise to go out with your friends without that person, therefore avoiding all nastiness.
Hope your okay, don't let this bitch get you down.
SMILE!!!
Claire xx
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I think it may not be a good idea to try and top her in meaness. she seems to be better at it than you are It would be better to try and make her your friend again. The best way it to appeal to her ego. Pay her a compliment. The next time you are all together, wait for an opportunity to make her look smart. Something like if a question comes up, say "Why not ask "so and so" she would know what to do." She's good at that. Or Lets get "so and so to help, she'll know what to do. Compliment something she has on. Say something like, I wish I could wear low cut jeans like that, they just don't look good on me. You get the picture. It has to be something realistic that she will belive. It may not work the first time, but after a few times, she may warm up to you again and like you Believe me this works. When you upset her you probably hurt her ego, now you have to repair it.
I hope this works.
Michele
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1)don't be rude to her
2)she wants to fight with you because she has nothing better to do and prolly thinks its fun get her somthing better to do be nice to her or get her some one else to fight with
3)be her friend and ACT LIKE NOTHING EVER HEPPENED
hope I helped
~*~the_little_mermaid~*~
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Hey!
Well if you really want to fix the problem don't say anything rude to them. If you do he/she will only get ruder and nastier. Have you ever heard the saying if you give vinger you'll get vinger back the only way to cure it is to give them honey. That basically means if someone is rude to you then if you are rude back it just contines in an on going cycle. If you are nice then they will be kinder to you. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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