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What do I do next?
So me and one of my best guy friends have kind of been a little more then friends latly. Like last night we were watching this movie and he told me to sit with him and we started cuddling but not like friendly..more like intimate and I liked it. His best friend told me that hes going to ask me out but I dont know if I should say yes or no...see there are positives and negitives:
Positives-
I wouldnt be single
I could french someone
hes perfect(except hes a perv)
Negitives-
Im going to camp and so is he in like 4-6 weeks and wont be able to see tim all summer
are friendship will die
Plzz help im 14/f and rate ^ lyl mwaaaa
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well you could tell him that you want to wait until you guys get back from camp. Or you could always say yes and just see what happens and if it works out then thats good. you could also say yes and then go on a "break" while you guys are away and then see how you are when you get home. hope this helps. good luck
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You like him, which is good, but you seem to have the maturity of a small child, which isn't. Save dating until you can spell.
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GO OUT WiiTH HiiM AFTER YOU HANG OUT ALOT TELL HiiM YOU DONT WANNA BREAK UP OR RUiiN UR FRiiENDSHiiP
xOxViLLy!
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If you are best friends already then it won't die when you go to camp. Friendships don't just keel over for no reason. Negative reason gone already.
I think you could probably think of some better positives than what you have here! How about he a good friend. Makes you happy. Makes you feel special. I think you could have a couple of those too! I think you should give it a try. You won't be at camp forever. Write letters to each other while at camp. Good luck :)
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If you guys have cuddled then go for it .... I dont think no chick wants to be single .... You say your going to camp well write him all the time **(( every chance u get ))** so if you really like him of coarse you should say yes
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Don't count your chickens before they hatch.(No matter what anyone says)... if he does ask you out though, do you like him? Do you want to date him? Those should be the only things that really matter. And if he's perverted enough to try something with you, tell him to back off.
Going to summer camp is going to be a problem, me and my boyfriend broke up over it.. can you guys call each other or anything? Write letters?
As for your friendship dying, my guy best friend and I went out and broke up multiple times.. and we're still best friends. Just because you decide to make a relationship into something more doesn't mean you automatically just hate that person!! There's a risk, but as long as you break it off nicely, everything should be okay with you guys.
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It's only normal to fall for your friends. For example, I used to be good friends with this guy, but eventually he started to like me. So, we went out,it was alright for lyk 4 months, but den all da fighting started & we kept breakin up & gettin bak 2gether & breakin up...until one day, we didn't get back together. Now we're not even friends nomore. So, you're right, if you go with this boy, your friendship will die. But the question is..what do you want more?
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