i told my friend i fancy this boy and now she flirts with him all the time. but only scince i told her i did fancy him. shes having a party and is inviting him and me and says she going to set her best friend up with him and then says whats wrong like she doesn't know. i really hate her when she is like this please help me...
Airie answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 5:12 pm: Oh my god! That sounds just like what's happening to my friend! Anyway, it's obvious that she's a man-stealer, so you need to confront her about it. Tell her how you really feel, and don't hold back. And say, "Why is it that when I happened to start liking him, all of a sudden you flirt with him?" Tell her you're not saying you want her to stop, but if she were a good friend, she would because it's not right what she's doing to you. You had him first. Also, tell her it's not fair that she's setting up her best friend with him. What kind of friend is that? You should be the one getting with him. So express all your feelings to her, and hopefully, she'll change her mind. :) [ Airie's advice column | Ask Airie A Question ]
shake answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 4:48 pm: You didnt really ask a direct question. YOu know, usually you tell us info like you just did. THEN you ask a direct question.
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 4:42 pm: heyy .. you just have to sit her down and talk to her and tell her that you know she is just trying to piss you off and tell her to please stop with this shitt and if you want the boy then you have to tell him that you like him
zapreth answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 3:34 pm: This is the kind of petty, back-biting, pissy assed shite I hated in school. It is called one-upmanship. You have an interest in a guy, she takes closer notice and desides you're not half wrong. She starts flirting cuz you don't. One up. She has beaten you to flirting with him. Next one up, she invited him to a party. Now ahe is TRYING to upset you by claiming in not so many words, that 1. she doesn't want him and 2. She's GIVING him to another girl. This can mean one of two things. She's a real bitch and is trying to hurt you, or she's a good friend and has been trying to get you off your ass to fight for this guy's attention. You know her, I don't. Which would be more likely? Either way, you should take the opportunity at the party to flirt and talk to the guy. Good luck! [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
oxKateKaylaxo answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 3:12 pm: Maybe your friend has short term memory loss? J/K. She might have forgotten or thought you were joking or something like that. (I don't know your friend, so I can't really say) why would she set him up with your friend if she fancies him? Just wondering. Are you sure she isn't just a natural flirt? Maybe she is afraid if you get a boyfriend that she will be left out?
Just tell her how you feel. Hopefully she will understand. Hope I helped!
~oxkatekaylaxo [ oxKateKaylaxo's advice column | Ask oxKateKaylaxo A Question ]
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