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This is weird,sorry
if your going to make fun of me please dont answer this question. I feel like if my hair dosent look good,or i got bags under my eyes,because of my friend. I feel like she controls my life and if i dont use a cirtain shampoo in the shower,she'll no and make my hair look bad. Its so weird i dont want to feel this is makes me hate her,i dont want to hate her..But she also always has a good time with friends and leaves me out..could this be a part? I need help! **rate high**
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DUMP HER!
DUMP HER NOW!
Get out as soon as you possibly can. She has enough control of your life that she can make you feel inferior with the snap of her fingers and it's terrible. I know, I've been there. Start hanging out with people that DON'T make fun of you and make you happy. This girl is toxic to you.
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Dude.. its your life dont let her control how you do your hair and everything else. If she does then she is defenetly not a good friend. Just stand up to her and if she gets mad dont worry about it. She wont be mad forever. Tell her how you feel so she knows not to do it anymore. ♥
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Tell her that its your life and you dress like you want and have your hair whatever style that isnt for to to desided. You should get a new friend. You dont deserve to be treated like that.
luv roxie
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well you shouldnt feel like that at all. you are your own person and its your life! if you want to use a certain kind of shampoo then go for it! but you should never feel that any human(espically a friend) has control over your life. next time yall go do something dress how you want and look how you want and dont even worry about what she thinks! and as far as having a good time with friends and leaving you out....ask her about it. just say "i like hanging out with you but every time you go out with your friends you always leave me out". if she is a good friend then she will understand and try to fix it.
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Hunni, this "friend" doesn't really sound like a friend to me at all. This is obviously a serious problem for you, so what I think you need to do is ditch her and get yourself some new friends who will love you for you, not try to change you and definetly won't leave you out. I know it may be hard, but she's not respecting you the way a true friend would and the sooner you get away from her, the happier you'll become.
But if you don't want to hate her like you've said and you want to maybe sort your friendship, I'd advise you to invite her over to your house and tell her everything that you've written. Be honest and try to sort the problem together. Afterwards, if she still doesn't stop it, I'm afraid you may have to go for the first option.
You are a unique and special person and that's how it should be. Believe in yourself and only do things if you want to. Good luck hunni
Claire xx
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