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Friend Getting on My Nerves
I have this one friend...we've been friends for 2 years. Well, this past year we've gotten closer, but now I think we're getting TOO close. She says I'm HER best friend, but I already have a best friend. And she always makes me hang out with her in the morning at school, and gets mad at me if I want to go with MY best friend even though we just sit in her crushes homeroom. She always tries to make plans with me on the weekend even though I always do things with my best friend. She makes me do her science homework for her, and she borrow my science book every day even though I don't WANT too! It's getting out of control and I'm starting to be very extremely annoyed of her. I miss hanging out with my best friend!! It's like she thinks WE'RE best friends, even though its clear we aren't. I don't know what to do anymore, and I'm afraid if I just keep letting things go on like this I'll end up really despising her. What should I do?
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I think you should try to notice her. Maybe the girl lacks attention and she really really wants to be your bestfriend. If you don't want to be her bestfriend, be at least her friend and tell her that you already have a bestfriend. Let her understand your feelings and maybe she'll give you time to be with your bestfriend.
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well first of all, SHE'S NOT YOUR REAL FRIEND,not only a best friend! if she gets mad at you because your sitting with someone else, then she is just to involved into you! tell her to do her own homework, and that you have other friends, and tell her what you feel from your heart, trut me, by not saying anything is making it worse and worse! hope i helped, ask me anytime!
-JoElen <33
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Hmmm. First of all, tell that "best friend" that she is getting on your nerves. but dont say it like in a mean way. si down with her and talk her over the things that you don't like. Or maybe ou should just stay away from her for a while and then see what happens.
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To prevent you from despising her, just tell her straight out next time she makes you do something "sorry, but im hanging out with (your best friends name) b/c i miss hanging out with her and shes my best friend." Dont do her hw for her..just say no! Tell her your still her friend, but she cant get mad at you if you go and talk to someone else, she needs to learn how to accept that. Just say it straight out..its the best way to get things across to people..dont be shy because you dont want her annoying you anymore right?
-melissa-
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I've definitely been in the same situation when I was younger. Some girls tend to become clingy with someone they have alot in common with and are scared to lose someone. You have to tell her, nicely, that sometimes you want to hang out with your other friend. Explain to her that you cant do her homework because you have your own work to do. If she's a true friend, she won't get all mad but she might be a little hurt. Let her know she is your friend and that you are always there for her. xo
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