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being used?
ok so i have this friend, who will remain nameless. anyway we used 2 b like uber close and talk about everything. Now all of a sudden its like shes trying 2 replace me or some10, she treats me like im not there and talks 2 me when its liek convient 4 her. I try 2 talk 2 her about it but she never realy listins. Ill ask her like ok are you avoiding me and she says no, but then leaves. I decided that i just have 2 make her listin, and like in person say what i need 2 say and just find out whats going on. Am I doning the right thing? please help this is my really good friend and i dont wanna loose her.
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yes you are doing the right thing, chances are someone told her you did something (wether you did or didnt) or maybe you forgot her birthday. or maybe she just doesnt like you anymore, its a grim possibility but it would be better to find out. you should definitely talk to her.
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Hm...When you try to talk to her just dont ask her if she is trying to avoid you. Have a true one on one conversation with her about it. Find a good time when you can have a good long chat with her. And tell her how upset you are getting about drifting apart, and that you really don't want to loose her as a friend because thats the last thing you want to have happen. If you find a time when you have plenty of time to talk, then it should be ok and she wont walk away. I hope I helped and if you need anymore advice please feel free to leave another message.
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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