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standing up to a guy (long srry)
ok im 14, this guy anthony is 15, leah my best friend is 15, and her ex tony is 15.
ok well me and leah started to talk again 5 months ago and she told me about her bf tony. how they had been going out for almost a year. and that 8 months into it they had sex. she thought i would be surprised but i wasnt i was just like o thats kool were you safe and stuff. and she was happy i didnt freak she asked me if i had a bf and i said no. she was like o well tony has a best friend anthony and you to could hook up. and i was really happy because i really wanted to get over my ex {who first made out with a girl and i caught him and he said he cheated because i wasnt talking to him enough. then i had another who i returned all his calls and then he told his friends i stalked him. so i havent had good bfs.} so i said yes. leah told me he saw my 7th grade pix thought i was hot and we set up a blind date. leahs parents dont like tony. so we couldnt have them find out. so when leahs parents left we went to her house. they came and he looked really surprised because i looked alot better than from my 7th grade pix. so we went to the movie and leah and tony started fight so we sat in front and he wasnt making his move. so leah put his arm around me and it was around my lower back so i held his had that was around me leaned on him with his head on mine. it was so perfect nuthing happened. i gave him a hug goodbye that was it.
then about a month later we really wanted to see eachother so we made plans that me and leah would be at the mall and tony and his mom would pick us up and take us to the movie. well anthony was on his way from hocky. well it happened to be that her mom dound notes that refered to them having sex came to the mall to find us saw us get in tonys car comes in the movie sees them together takes us out before i could see anthony.
recently it was a month after and me and leahs phone calls get listened into by her mom. then i found out anthony was saying all this shit about me that i was prude and ugly. leah found out and yelled at him saying never to come near me. well i actdentaly IMed tony thinking it was someone else. hey said hey whos this i said brittany whos this and he said tony. he was like whats up. and i said nuthin u? and he said im srry bout what happned with anthony. tony then he said his friends put shit in his head. and i said well what?! and he said that because your a year younger and in middle skool that it was gay. and that really wanted to see you but that he was to busy with hockey and we didnt talk for a while so he lost intrest. and that hes to dependent on his friends and what they think to think for himself. well one of his friends said that the reason nuthing happened is because im prude. and i was thinking to myself well im not the one to make the first move. and i was really upset for a while
ok heres my question.
if you were me what would you do i ahvent seen anthony since that movie that we went to and saw together. what should i say if i see him?
im really upset and i dont know what to do because his friends are saying shit and im going to have a bad rep. beofr i get to high skool. please help i dont know what to say or how to stand up to him? and what to say.
love brittany
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I don't think being a prude will give you a bad rep. Not being one certainly will!
If you see him ignore him.He isn't worth your time. He just likes to talk big, and I'd bet not many people take him seriously.
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