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hard to deal with...


Question Posted Thursday April 7 2005, 10:39 am

ok so i have this friend and she's mexican and obviously she's not white. i'm persian but i dont look persian at all...i look white b/c i basically am. she's acting all getto all the time and its hard to deal with sometimes like she is acting all like that and i'm stuck being white. how do i deal with this?

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cokecap_x21 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 1:05 pm:
aye aye aye! im white aswell :). It should not matter the skin color! if i might say,people also act different in different places,example-- i used to live in a city that was all getto,so i acted a bit myself,but when i moved i didnt act as getto because people there were not.[[not saying im getto or not,why should it matter!!]] Summer is coming soon :) get a niicee tan!!:):) i hope i helped you:)

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Demon_hunter answered Thursday April 7 2005, 12:37 pm:
Are you serious...? 9_9 oh brother... do you think maybe she's trying to impress someone? and if no, why do YOU think she's acting that way? If all else fails, I'll say what i always say: Talk to her! Do you people actually talk to whoever the problem is before you ask here? sheesh....

For my love of God
Demon Hunter

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PsycoSkitz21 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 11:51 am:
you aren't stuck being "white." You can act however you choose, whatever suits your personality. If you'd like to act like her, but feel awkward when you do, then maybe mentally you're "stuck being white." I come from a middle eastern side as well, my dad is from Jordan, my mom is American, so I too, look white as well. My advice, don't worry about it, if she's your friend, she won't mind you acting "white" ;)

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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Thursday April 7 2005, 11:27 am:
yur skin dont matta. eminem is pale as shit at he's 'ghetto'. so just be yurself. theres no reason to see yo skin colo as a bad thing to nethin. hope i helped

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drka452 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 11:20 am:
hey okay what you need to do is sit down with her and tell her hey why you bein like that i mean dont disrespect her because im sure you still want to be freinds with her tell her its okay if you wanna be like that but dont degrade me im white and proud of who i am but be kind becuase freinds are one of the most important things in life i hope this helps you

sincerly,
drka452

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