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I don't fit in with this clique...
I don't know why it matters to me so much, but I can't get everyone in this clique at school to like me, or even acknowledge my prescence. I have been able to make friends with a couple of people in this clique, but I guess a couple is not enough to be accepted into 'their world'. Mostly our friendship only extends to talk at school in class and in the hallway, hanging out during break, passing notes during class, and then a few phonecalls during the week. But I would love more then anything to be invited to hang out with them on the weekends and to be included more in their after school activities. How do I try to become their friend without really trying too hard?
Thank you so much, and I will rate every question highly that gives me good suggestions.
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it is hard to break into a clique. Especially if it is made up of people who have all known one another a long time.
Enjoy time spent with those who will be your friends.The rest of them probably are not worth the effort, believe me!
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Invite them all over to your house and just hang out. Watch a movie, play games and just socialize. Just try to involve yourself or make it so that you are involved (ex: having people to your hosue). Inside school just keep up what you have been doing and things will work out. This clique will begin to accept you more once they feel comfortable with you, so just get to know them all.
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Hon, not everyone in High School will like you, that comes with the territory. But if you truly want to be friends with these girls, then maybe you should try <b>building onto</b> the friendship that you already have with the few girls out of the group. I like to call it the "Waterfall Theory": You become friends with them - they go back and talk about your positives to the other people in the group - new friendships start developing - the process repeats over. It could happen like this, but then again, it couldn't. Maybe you should try facilitating weekend activities with the girls that you are friends with. Invite them over on the weekend on sometime during the week. If you want a friendship, then initiate effort instead of waiting for someone to initiate things first.
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If they haven't exepted you yet they might not ever.If you want to you can keep being nice and maybe your friendship will extend further.It takes a while for people to get used to you.Hope i was helpful!
-Shayna-
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Well, if they dont except you as their friend already... SCREW THEM!!! thats wat i alwayz say. if people dont like me or dont except me as their friend they can screw themselves!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!
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Stop being a sheep.
Why is it so important to you that these girls like you? Does the sun rise in their assholes?
I feel kind of sorry for you, it must be sad to be so unfortunate.
xoxo
_Granny
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