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Is he playing me or what?
okay, i had this ex named bradin about a yr ago and we both liked each other but i dumped him for another guy that i went out with. now im startin to like bradin again because we've been talking again. he says he likes me too but has a girlfriend or "has a girl in mind".. he always flirts with me, saying he wishes it was me and everything just doing normal flirting stuff but wont break up with her because he says hes been waiting for her for a long time. whenever i ask him if i have a chance or whatever he says maybe and then when i ask him if theres any point to liking him he says yes but he doesnt know what. i know he has been waiting for this girl but she says that they arent going out but they both like each other. i really want to go out with him but i dont know what i should do or say to him or act around him or even if i should stop liking him. i dont want to stop liking him. he really does act like he likes me and everything but doesnt want to cheat on his "girlfriend"
what should i do!
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You should probably tell him that if he isn't going to break up with her, than he isn't worth your time. If a guy EVER says that that it's worth waiting for, it normally isn't worth it. Besta Luck
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anonymous -
My best suggestion is to either have the patience and wait it out or move on.
Since the guy obviously doesn't know what he wants, the only thing you really can do is respect his decision, whether he chooses you or not.
Either way, you want a confident decisive guy! You don't want a hesitant guy cuz if you do end up going out with him, how do you know he wouldn't do the same switcheroo-what-girl-do-i-want thing with you and some other chick?
Hope this helps!
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If he really liked you, he would go out with u, cuz you said they weren't actually going out. Find some one else, and if that doesn't work, maybe by then he'll get the picture. Maybe the emotions youre feeling is just becoming friends with him again, you might not actually be liking him.
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just flirt a lot and he'll get the point and most likely give you a chance. give it some time. do something that will have him give you more attention.
~natt~
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what you should do is move on and get with someone else. don't be waiting around for him forever. just move on and if he really likes you, he'll come to you in time. get with someone else to see how he'll react, too!
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