ok... this might be long... but i'll rate 5's for anyone who answers i swear!!!!! ok... theres this girl(taylor) on my boyfriends(rob) bus... and me and my friend (anna) think that taylor likes rob... so anna told rob that we thought taylor liked him... and i asked him if he thought she was pretty and i said i want an honest answer i won't be mad... so he told me he thought she was pretty, but not as pretty as me... and i started crying cauz lately theres just been so much stress on me and i just had to break down... then i asked if he would ever like her and he said "i dunno... but i wouldn't cheat on you" and i said ok... but the "i dunno" just broke my heart... so i keep reassuring him that im fine about it... but somewhere inside i no im not and i don't wanna keep bugging him about it... i really love him and i trust him... but i just get this bad feeling about him and her sitting together on the bus...and since he's in a year younger than me his parents won't let him go out on dates so i only get to see him like 3 times durring the day... and taylor gets to be with him more than i do and it just kills me to no that... i don't know what to do.. please help... or give encouraging words.. i luv him and he luvs me too... i trust him.. but i just can't get over it... (im a very sensitive person)
girlygirl answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 4:23 pm: Oh honey.....it's SO hard not to tear yourself up over it. Your boyfriend has been honest and that's what you asked of him. Try to be the cute confident girl that he liked to begin with. Take a deep breath, you said you trust him, so now let you mind take a break and just enjoy the time you are together and not worry about the rest of it. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
luv2swim109 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 4:19 pm: aww sor sry to hear that. maybe you should talk to taylor. make sure everything will turn out finr. if shes your friends she wont "try" to steal your bf. its just no right for a friend to do that. you also need to be straight out with your bf. im sure he would want to know how he really feels. talk to him too.
broken_tears answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 4:05 pm: ive been through this before and i stayed with my bf. if you think that he is doing something then ask him and trust him. if he starts acting weird or like he doesnt like you anymore or something than do what you have to no matter how much it hurts. just keep checking in and seeing what is happening with him. i hope everything works out!
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Alize answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 3:49 pm: if i were u ill just b str8 up with him and tell him how you feel, and if you feel he likes that girl, you should just let him go, even though it's gonna hurt. it's better for you to do it now rather than later. move on and go out with someone you culd date and spend time with.good luck (and i hope you don't get hurt). *AlIzE* [ Alize's advice column | Ask Alize A Question ]
lostinside answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 3:48 pm: I think the only thing to do is tell him. It's best to have an honest, open relationship. Tell him what you told us, that you trust him, but it still hurt. It sounds like he loves you a lot, you said he did yourself. Just always remember he loves you, and don't let anyone or anything get in the way!
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