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i feel unloved
it feels like all of my friends are getting new friends and that im "out of the loop" like me and this 1 girl used to be really close and now she has new friends i mean we still hang out but not like we used to. this is making me reLLY DEPRESSED what should i do???
-unloved child
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you are unloved
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OMG i had the same problem, what i did is i called her and said she was leaving me out and i didnt like it. give her a call and tell her whats up. Dont let your feelings show, ask your other friends to hang out so you can take her off your mind. The only thing you cannot do is talk about her. It takes more effort to be mean than to be nice!! good luck:)
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I can relate. My best friend that I have know since I was about 2 has gotten this new group of friends and forgets about me all the time. She only calls me when she needs help or wants to tell me about what a good time she had with her other friends. I feel like she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. You should try and get more friends, but also talk to your other friends about this also. I hope that you ask God to help you with this also. He is always there when you need him most. If you are so depressed try to do something else so you forget about it.
-Yours Truly
- Skittlez
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No, no, no...You are not unloved :)
You are growing up, and changing. So are your friends. During this stage of your life it's normal for you and your friends to develop different interests and personalities, and as a result grow apart.
I understand that this can make you sad. (I still remember being sad when I realized that my childhood friend and I were growing apart.) Being sad is also natural, but I promise that it will pass.
If you and your current friends still share similiar interests, try to strengthen that friendship by rediscovering your common interests and spending a little more time together. If not, try making new friends. (Or you could try both.)
Making new friends isn't really that hard, contrary to popular belief. You could try joing a club at school, getting involved in sports, or find some activity outside of school that you are interested in. Or you could even try just walking up to another boy/girl at school who looks friendly and striking up a conversation. (I've made some of my best and oldest friends that way.)
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Your feeling this way because its normal to.You can get in the loop too!Ask them early in the week like tuesday or wed. ..ask hey you guys wanna go to the movies? or go to my house ? etc. invite everyone and you'll be in the loop in no time! They wont turn you down or anything..you'll do great. You could also maybe get closer with a girl you get along with in some class..or maybe a teammate on a sport. All you have to do is ask..can i have ur number? maybe we can hang out? In no time you'll have a lot of friends to hang out with. Try that out and if it doesnt work..write to me in my inbox
-melissa0
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omg that exact thing happened to me! well can you try to hang out with all of them and then you could hang out with ur friend still and not be left out. Hope i helped! Good Luck!
~Dani~
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I went through the same thing. You will loose a lot of friends and make new friends in life. Find someone knew to hang out with and dont say your unloved cuz your probably not and you probably have a bunch of friends!
~Brina~
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hang out with them way more and meet their new friends! just tell ur friends how you feel and then you wont feel unloved x0
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well if you dont want to lose any of your friends try spending more time with them as usual. show them that your the one that they shold be spending time. and u might no it but you are loved. you just gotta make it happen. if you standby and watch yourself slowly pull away from everyone you will feel more and more depressed. so try to spend more time with your friends and if they dont like to spend that much time with you, you might consider new friends too.
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