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he ruined it
theres this guy who i met when i came to a new school.. he was really funny and wed talk alot.. except hes really perverted and every joke he makes deals with something nasty... i found out that he liked me and it totally ruined our friendship.. i mean i feel so uncomfortable around him because of the thoughts he has and the fact that he likes me just makes me disgusted.. he asked me to the dance at the end of the year and said yes.. cuz i thought we could go as friends.. but i found out that he STILL liked me.. i cant talk to him anymore.. what do i do.. should i like still go to the dance with him.. i dunno gimme some thoughts
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You said yes to him, so you'd have a hard time getting out of going with him without breaking his heart. I had this same problem a few months ago.
My guy friend liked me A LOT, but he was really perverted and constantly made sick jokes about being horny, sex, and that sort of stuff. He asked me to hang out, and I thought it was just as friends. Then I found out that he still liked me when I got there. I was pretty much stuck with him for the rest of the night, watching him gaze at me (I don't even WANNA know what he was thinking the whole time) and groping me. I told him to knock it off but he wouldn't stop. So I said I had to go, and he told me to stay. I agreed to stay if he had his friend/neighbor come over. He came over. My friend was still touching me (he grabbed my ass a few times). My other friend (the neighbor) told him to knock it off, but he still didn't. So then I blew up at him, and left.
I haven't talked to him in 5 months. I miss just chatting with him. Don't make the same mistake I did.
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Hmm.. I think if he really bothers you that much then just say "Heyy, we're going to the dance as just friends, right?". Make sure he knows you dont like him back. If you're really uncomfortable then dont go at all!
Good Luck!
-Rachel
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Hey, like ushrodjeter7 said make it clear that you are FRIENDS. I would talk to him about it.
Tell him that you don't like him like that. If he has a problem with that, then that's his problem cuz he's the one missing out on you. If you don't feel comfortable around him, then I wouldn't go to the dance with him. If you do, stay with a group of friends. NEVER GO ALONE WITH HIM ANYWHERE! I was on my way into school last year, and this perve that I didn't even know came up behind me and touched me between the legs. I'm not saying this boy would do anything like that, after all, some guys just talk, but I wouldn't test it. DEFINITLY MAKE SURE IT'S CRYSTAL CLEAR THAT YOU ARE JUST FRIENDS. He might not realize he's making you uncomfortable, also. Just try and talk to him. If that doesn't work, I'd keep your distance.
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