Ok, My friend she is sad and feels theres nothing left in life but friend's.See im trying to help her to see there is more in her life then that but she just dosn't understand.I try to talk to her but she just say's there no use because she knows this life of her's is pretty much true,but even though it pratcically is there has to be something that i can do to help her get over this sadness she has. and i just don't know what to do.plz help me to figure a way to make her happy again.
Zoinatrobe answered Monday February 7 2005, 3:51 pm: Your friend is in a bad situation at the moment, but situations can be changed. You can help- as she thinks that friends are the best part of her life, make sure you and all your friends are especialy kind to her. If you don't know, find out exactly why she is so upset. Encourage, but DON'T force her to confide in you. Getting things of her chest may help her get it out of her system. Give her a number to an organisation. If you do not feel comfortable doing this, ring a number yourself and ask for advice for what to do about your friend. Try childline - 0800 11 11 or go online at www.childline.org.uk. This is free advice on aany topic. Convince her to tell her parent/s or gurdian. As she did not mention parents in whats left of her life, she may not trust them. You know best- you can choose weather to leave this step out or not. After this, monitor the situation closly, asking her how she is feeling. Try and get her to join some kind of club with you and some other friends, such as a new sport. If she becomes dedicated to a sport or art, e.c.t it adds to what is left in her life. Ask to go places with her alot, like shopping or whatever you like doing. If there is trouble, send me a question. Hope I helped,
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Itsallkaitlyn answered Monday February 7 2005, 2:26 pm: Maybe you should recomend her to get some help, she seems really depressed. Or just sit with her and talk to her and find out everything that is bothering her. What she really needs is a friend though so stick with her. Please let me Kno what Happens. I hope everyhting is Ok.-Kaitlyn ITSALLKAILYN*S.N [ Itsallkaitlyn's advice column | Ask Itsallkaitlyn A Question ]
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