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some girl wants to fight
ok, i am NOT the fighting kind of person... but i called this one girl a whore because she told me to stfu. but now she wants to fight me and i`m NOT gonna fight her.... shes not exactly skinny and she has a lot of mexican friends... im not scared of her at all... but should i tell her that i`m not gonna fight her, or should i just go with the flow... i dont want ppl to htink ii`m scared of her for not fighting her.... its just i knoe that if we fight... we`re still gonna hate eachother so wuts the point..?
i hope you can help... xOx
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No you shouldnt fight her because that would lead to more problems.. a thing like this happened to me at school becasue this girl thought i called her names so she started to make fun of my friends to get me mad and fight her and she said i was to afraid to fight but i told her i wasnt gonna fight her and i just ignored everything she said to me.. and if people say/think your afraid to fight her just tell them that fighting wouldnt solve any problems. i hope i helped you :)
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Ok,
When (or if) this girl confronts you, walk away and act as if she is really imature and stupid to want to fight (wich she is). If she starts saying rude stuff about you to provoke you, ignore it. Don't take comments about being scared. Act as if you are COMPLETLY above this and this stupid fighting over nothing is SO below you.
All this should leave her looking very stupid. Walking away in the right way should leave her still standing there in her aggresive stance and you acting as if she is sooooo dumb.
NOTE- Don't be openly rude or say anything offensive, simply show it in your body language.
Good luck, and if there are any problems or anything, just send me a question!
Zoinatrobe.
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tell her go mow a lawn for a quarter an hour or soemthing. no im kidding dont lol. just say you dont wana fight and walk away. it takes mroe courage not to fight then it does to fight becasue youre risking ridicule. just walk away
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Fight her cause then peopel will think ur a stupid face if you dont.
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Well, my question to you is what does having Mexican friends have anything to do with it? But anyway, just tell her that you're not going to fight her because you don't have to prove anything to her. If she wants to be a stupid little bitch and try to fight you, then let her think she can do it. Ask her this, what is it going to prove to her if you two do fight? Absolutly nothing. She's the one that's going to make herself look like an idiot for trying to fight someone. She's just stupid. Ignore the little bitch.
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Hi Sweetie,
Put it off until she forgets about it. If she keeps bringing it up and her friends all try to get involved tell her its between you and her. When you are alone ask her what she expects will happen after you guys fight. This will help her realize your point... it won't make a difference. Tell her "you don't have to like me ansd I don't have to like you. We just go to the same school. Stay out of my way and I'll stay out of yours." That actually ENDS the porblem. And nobody gets in trouble with deans... parents... friends making fun of you... etc.
I hope everythign turns out OK. Take care. ~Blessed Be...
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Tell her it isn't worth your time or effort to fight. Fighting doesnt solve anything. Words dont hurt, fists do.
Hope I helped
~Nokomis~
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