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need help!! FAST!!!
hey i need help really bad! i need help because i think i still have really strong feelings for my ex. i know he does to because he tries putting his arm around me and stuff but i tell him not to.. anyways the problem is we have been broken up for about 1 month and now i have a new boyfriend.i like him, but all the time i catch myself thinking about my ex... my new boyfriend is really great but he cant compare to the feelings that my ex gave/still gives me.. i dont want to mess up either.. can some one please help!
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I know what you are going threw it's happened to me before and it sucks. The best thing you can do is forget about your ex. I know it will be hard and you might think i'm crazy, but eventually it will work out. You now have another boyfriend that is also good to you. Hope I helped you let me know what happens.
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I think you should decide on which guy you like better, because someone is going to end up either pissed or hurt(or both). In my opinion, your ex is your best shot in this situation. Obviously you still want him, so go for it. =*
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Ok. I think that whoever you like more you should date. Really think it over carefully though. Follow your heart! If your ex gives you more butterflies in your heart than your new boyfriend, go out with him. But break up with your boyfriend first. But maybe its the other way around, you maybe like your boyfriend better than your ex, keep going out with your boyfriend and tell your ex straight off that you have a new boyfriend who you really like.
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I have this same exact problem right now too! i know its killing me too. But i think we both know what we should probably do even thought its not what we want to do... maybe. But my advice is break up with your current boyfriend, and talk with your ex. Tell both of them the honest truth and follow your heart. Take some time to think to yourself what you think is best for you. Tell your boyfriend that your breaking up with him because (obviosly the reasons) and that you don't want to hurt him -hopefully he will be understanding... but know what its probably for the best. With your ex... talk about everything - your feelings, relationships, why you broke up last time.. and what to do now. Good luck, hope i helped =D .. by the way- tell me what happens because i need with with this too, its cool to see some1 with the same situation ;)
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well if you still have feelings for your ex then you need to be fair to the b/f you have now and break up with him cuz you dont want to hurt him and you moved way to fast into that relationship with your new b/f so maybe you should talk things out with your new guy tell him how you feel about your ex and break up with him tell you get over your ex and then go back out with the guy you are going out with now and then talk to your ex if you want to get back with him or not or take a break from every one hope i helped rate me
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I say that you should just break up with your current boyfriend, even though it will be hard. But if you still have strong feelings for your ex and you think has strong feelings for you, you might end up cheating on your bf by accident because you still like your ex. So I think you should just be single for a while so you can think about what you really want to do, and who you really love. So this way, if you do break up with your bf now, and you don't get back together with your ex yet, no one's feelings will get hurt. Please talk to me if you need some more advice!!!
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