Question Posted Saturday January 22 2005, 10:43 am
i dont have a ton of friends (maybe 6 or 7 really close ones - my best friends) But the other day, they told me i was really clingy and that they need some space. I didnt want to say anything but i got realy upset. I dont try to be clingy at all! And i realized they were right but i dont know how to stop! Im one of those people who cant sit home on a fridy night bi themselves and be happy! Im so depressed alll the time and i dont know whats wrong with me! And they say i make them depressed and sad b/c i am..It just feels like no one likes me! How do i get them to like me? What do people do that gets annoying?? I need to know what i am doin wrong =/ thanks..
SweetThoughtz answered Saturday January 22 2005, 12:51 pm: hey! ask ur friends what ur doing wrong...also make new friends and don't get so in their face as much as you do!! i mean hang out with them but give them some space when they need it!!...xoxo!! [ SweetThoughtz's advice column | Ask SweetThoughtz A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Saturday January 22 2005, 11:54 am: O you really have good friends.. you dont need friends that say your too "clingy" thats how best freinds are.. always suppose to be with each other.
AnGeLtHuGsTa answered Saturday January 22 2005, 11:38 am: First of all, these "friends" of yours aren't really your "friends". I know this hurts, but what kind of friends are they if they don't stick by you when your depressed? They should be helping you not ditching you. All of you need to have a serious talk together. They could tell you what they don't like about you and you could tell them what you don't like about them. And if all of you make an effort to change, then those are your real friends. If they don't, they could be the reason why your so depressed!! *goodluck* [ AnGeLtHuGsTa's advice column | Ask AnGeLtHuGsTa A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday January 22 2005, 11:02 am: Talk to them about how this is making you feel. Explain what you told us here to them. If they're really your best friends they'll understand. Maybe try and make more friends so your really close ones can have space as they call it. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
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