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Some sort of role reversal...?
Theres this guy I like at my school. Since school started, we've been really good friends and I've liked him and we've actually acted and seemed like we were more than that. Everyone around us seemed to think we were. We flirted a LOT.
Well, earlier in this month, he tried to ask this girl out whos a grade ahead of me and him and she turned him down. He really wanted to go with her but he still got over her very quickly. And even through all of this(school started in late August so its been about 4 or 5 months) he's flirted with me a lot and at least in my opinion, we've gotten closer.
So last night, I was talking to him on the phone and his mom got online under his screenname and I talked to both of them for a bit and his mom said I should come over and meet everyone sometime, that was cool. So then Josh and me hung up and he got online. Then he asked me for a picture of me and I asked him what for and he said because his mom wanted to know what I looked like. So I sent him a picture and he said his mom said I was cute. I was like, ok thanks and then I asked him if he thought I was cute. He said "Yes, I do" so then I told him about how people in our school have been telling me constantly that he likes me and I asked him if he really did and he said he wasn't ready to answer that question yet. So then we just started talking about music and out of nowhere he told me that he really did like me but he wasn't sure and stuff. He said, he likes me but he doesn't like me. Like, he's not sure if he wants to start something yet. He also told me that he thinks I only know the "school" him and not the "whole" him. That I only know part of who he is. And I accepted this, I was fine with this. So, I suggested me and him hang out together sometime and he was cool with that. Bottom line, he says he likes me a lot but hes not sure about everything completely yet. And I looked at his sun sign and he's a Libra and Libra's are known for being very indecisive. Now, I really want to get together with him because I'm really into him and well, you get the point, I suppose. But, I just wanna know, what can I do? If anything? Should I just wade it out and let him figure out how he feels himself? Talk to him about it more? Just try and get to know him more and let him get to know me more as friends? What should I really do because I just wanna be with him...?
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those signs arnt true. so dont get your undies in a bunch! hehe
Sounds like you've got a great guy, and he's just not ready! and thats still okay- and even if you all dont start something-sounds like you've got a great bestfriend!
:)
MisS KeLs:)
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Hmm...I think you should let him think it out a bit, while trying to get to know him better at the same time - but keep up the flirting, lol, or he might think you only want to be friends. If you feel like you've been waiting too long though, after a while, then tell him, because you won't get anywhere if you both just try and be friends forever. If he is indecisive, then you might have to end up making most of the decisions.
You two sound really sweet though, especially if his mum likes you!! I think you've got some pretty good chances of things turning out how you want them to here :D Don't let it pass you by!!
Good luck :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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i think you should let him think it out. it might be a bad idea for him to go into a relationship that he realizes he doesnt wanna be in, breaks up with you, and you are hurt. you should, though, get to know him because you two might get into a relationship. all you can do now is wait.
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You had alot of useless inforamtion. But anyways, like he said he wants you to know the 'whole' him so hang out with him more. But don't talk about it with him because then he will feel pressured. So if you guys spend alot of time together and it turns out you still like eachother then ya'll will go out, so just give him time, other wise he'll not want to go out with you.
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Well since you dont know the "whole" him yet. Just hang out with him more outside of school and you should wait it out. Once you starting getting to know him better, and liking him more (hopefully)...then he'll probably open up more to you and you guys can hook up. I know it sorta sucks to wait but once you guys go out the wait will be worth it. Good luck, and if you need any more help..leave it in my inbox!
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