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my brother
I seriously hate him so freaking much! I dont know what to do anymore his friends like me as friends and liek they talk to me online and then he comes home and tells my mom like a little freaking baby! Hes so annoying he calls me names all the time and makes me cry hes such a loser Hes never had a girlfriend hes 16 years old and im 14 I HATE HIM SO MUCH and i cant ignore him he lives with me he needs to move out of the house!he drives but never drives me places and hes so retarded he thnks hes all tough guy when his friends come over and he makes up SO MANY FREAKEN LIES! someone help me please ! sorry for the length
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Ok, me and my brother are two years part too and hes the older one, and he does the same thing. But now he is 18 and im 16 (or at least about to be) and hes still kinda like that but not as bad. Hes just being protective, im guessing that your kinda pretty and have a cool personatity for his friends to be talking to you, so his friends might be getting little crushes on you and he doesn't want that to happen, because if you went out with one of your brothers friends that would be fucked up. And if hes bugging you alot, thats just his way of hanging out with you, and you just need to not stress over it, because like its doing now its just making you hate him, so just try not to see him as being 'retarted' (it will be hard) but it will make living with him bearable. Also when he calles you names, try to ignore him cause when he makes you cry, that means hes won. So insteed of crying, brake something of his. (sorry its so long)
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You have got to set some boundaries with this guy. I think the reason he never has a girlfriend is because he's too childish. He doesnt treat you like the little sister you truly are, and you have to demand some respect. This may take some strategy and time, so dont give up, cause if he sees you're weak, he'll never stop. Oh, and you might wanna expose him for the true liar he is in front of his friends.(Unless he'll kill you)You have a life, and he's not supposed to interfere. if you wanna talk to someone, thats your business, and he shouldnt care as long as they werent doing you wrong or something. Get on him!
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Haha, some people have all the luck. My brother has Asperger's Syndrome, which makes him A LOT worse. He'll call me names and beat me up and steal things and everything. He's 19 and doesn't have his permit yet. The syndrome makes him act 5 years younger, meaning he acts like he's 14, but I think it's younger. Anyway, what works for me is when he's acting retarded, lol, is to just be nice to him. When I'm nice to him, suprisingly he's nice to me. Like, I went and got him a drink from the store, since I was going there anyway, and about a week later, he did the same thing for me. You just have to be nice, even if he's acting really mean. He'll be so caught off guard, he can't fight back. And if he's ever fighting with you, don't fight back. One person can't fight alone. You have to tell your mom about what's going on. Don't tell his friends he's lying, cuz then they won't like him and he'll get mad at you even more. Just talk to your mom about it, that always works for me. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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um... Grow up. That would most likely help you very much.
He's your brother. He's 16, how in the hell do you expect him to move out? Your going to be so much of a baby that you need to come online and make fun of him because he's never had a girlfriend, just because he won't give you a ride anywhere? He worked hard to get his license, you didn't. Why should he just automatically come whenever you call just because you say so?
Of course he calls you names. He's your brother! He should just kick your ass and get it over with. That is what older brothers are for when the younger sibling acts like a baby.
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