i feel really caught up inside myself. like i like this guy jake and he likes me but i haven't told anyone b/c my friend alexia just came out of a sort of relationship with him (basically he was off limits to people INCLUDING NOW!) i know that might sound selfish but that's just how alexia is. anyways i just want to go out with him but he won't ask me out b/c of alexia. i dont know what i should do as far as asking him out or just talking to him.
earthlynomad answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:43 pm: If you and Jake are meant for each other, Alexia will find a new toy soon. Until then, why don't you just enjoy being friends with both Alexia and Jake. If you don't stress about it or put pressure on Jake, he'll probably admire your confidence and see that you are happy with yourself. Considering Alexia requires her ex's devotion even after a relationship is over, I'd say she isn't that happy with herself.
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dustin4886 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:23 pm: go out with jake. tell him how you really feel. alexia seems likea real bitch. if i was jake i wouldnt go out with you just because you hang out with someone who cant get over herself. ( alexia) move on and find true friends. i hope i was a lot of help!
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Ashlee08 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:16 pm: it doesnt seem like alexia is a really good friend. dont let her take over ur true feelings.let jake know how u feel and forget about alexia. move on. [ Ashlee08's advice column | Ask Ashlee08 A Question ]
nEedmExOxwaNtmE answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:12 pm: well if he likes you and you like him i dont see a problem with it.. its not like alexia is going out with him anymore so theres nothing to worry about but talk to him about it and see what he thinks..- rach and jill [ nEedmExOxwaNtmE's advice column | Ask nEedmExOxwaNtmE A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:11 pm: Hey, don't go out with this guy, wait for your friend to get over him but that may take a while. Just talk to this guy and flirt with him. He will eventually get over your friend and will ask you out. Hope I helped :)
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Shortie8959 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:08 pm: Well, don't go out with him at least until Alexia gets over him. But it might take awhile. Friends are more important than guys, remember that. Don't go out with him unless Alexia says you can. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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