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Today at lunch my boyfriend of three and a half months broke up with me. I was very upset and cried for the rest of lunch, when I came home I sat around crying. Then, my friends came round and we all went to my other friend's house. I soon cheered up and realised that I was better off without him. Later on, most people left and we went to my house. After everyone had gone home, it was just me and one of my best friends (male.) He said he had to go home so we hugged and then he asked if I was okay. I told him I was and then he said: "Anything I do in the next minute is a mistake and doesn't mean I fancy you." Then we started making out. I don't understand, I know it was a total mistake but things are going to be really strange now. I have no idea whatsoever why I did it. What should I do? He's my best friend.
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Well you probably did it to lose yourself in him to forget your loss of your boyfriend and you're so right . Things are going to be awkward, but why should it be that way? He said what he'd do would be a mistake and that it doesn't mean he fancies you, meaning that it means nothing at all, so why let it phase you . Talk to him about it and agree to something with reasonable reasons "that it" just wasn't nothing and tell him that you don't want what happened to affect your friendship with him . Do that and you should be fine ."That it" would be the make-out session between the two of you .
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ok i think that's pretty lame how he made out with you and told you it was a mistake. whatever though. okay, just because he made out with you doesn't mean he has a thing for you.. some guys just like to fool around with girls. if this is the case, don't let him! give it time.. i mean, you did just get out of a relationship! now.. if he does have a thing for you, i say you talk to him about it. make sure he does before ya'll start making out again. lol
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Try talking to him about it. He might like you, but didn't want you to know, so he told you it was a mistake, and then made out with you. idk. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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you should talk to him about it. its what your soppose to do... if you want back your normal relationship as bff's then talk to him about it! i made that mistake before by not talking to some guys after some *stuff* and now we have not said a word to each other for almost 2 years! so dont make my mistake, talk to him
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tell him that you didnt mean it. if you have feelings for him then its up to you if you want to date him or stay best friends. he even said it was a mistake. im not sure what id do if i was in your postion but id tell him that i didnt mean it
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Aw, I'm sorry about your boyfriend. Just remember that feeling of how you were better off without him...Anyway, I think your question was more about what to do about your friend. If he doesn't feel anything, and you know it was a mistake, then just let it pass. You did it because you were feeling emotionally distressed, and we all make mistakes when we're in that state. Talk to your friend--it sounds like he feels the same way you do about not wanting it to develop into anything more. It'll be awkward for awhile, but it should probably blow over.
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