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ok im a girl who is a junior in high school and i have this friend who is a guy whos a freshmen in college....we'll call him mark...and we are really close, like almost like we're brother/sister...and like we talk about like people we like and everything like that and sometimes i seem to get annoyed because hes in college about 600 miles from where i live(he lives in the same city as me when hes not in college) and the girl he likes is in the city that im in right now. the reason i am getting annoyed is cuz he doesnt want to get over this girl even though there are girls at his college that he says he can see himself dating but he doesnt want to get over the other girl. what should i do?
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Well, What i think you should do is, just accept the fact that he likes this gurl! B/C, he might have strong feelings for her! And eventually it might go away! And you should feel really good, that he can talk to you about this stuff! Cause one day you never know. You could end up being with him, or going through the same thing, and hopefully he will be there helping you through the way, like you did with him. ~ Karah~
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I don't think there's much you can do... It's up to him whether he gets over her etc but try help him get over her.. If you lived closer I'd say go out with him to take him mind off her but you don't so I'm not really sure what you CAN do! Oh well! I guess it'll just take some time.
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Hi Sweetie,
There's not much you can do but be a good friend. Encourage him to go out with other girls... Tell him that he's a great guy and he could do better than that girl. Be nice to him... then wait for him to move on. There's nothing you can do to rush the process of moving on. Even if there was, it's not healthy to pressure something like that. Slowly he will move on and he will remember you were the good friend who gave him time and enoursaged him. You'll become better friiends. But he WILL move on... it's natural to have a hard time getting over someone at first.
I am sorry I cannot offer much help. Take good care. ~Blessed Be...
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well... just let him go out with that girl.. if he likes her and she likes him then what's wrong with that?
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you should talk to him seriously and ask him what it is about this girl that makes him want to date her when he isnt right for him and she doesnt want to date him anyway? then point out why he shouldnt be so crazy about her without making him think that you are putting her down so he doesnt assume that you like him like that or that you are jelous. but dont be surprised if he gets hurt before he relizes that you are right; people can be hard-headed and dont always want to listen to the obvious.
**_Nicole_**
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