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PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!
probably more than a month ago, my mom found out shes anemic(sp?) in other words, shes low in iron...then today my oldest sister found out she is somewhat canceris..(she may have a tumour down there, and is scheduled to have surgery next week, then be on Keimotherapy(sp?) nd if those dont work she will only have 1 year to live!)...then there is more drama in my family between my crack head sister. then of course i have my own problems going on @ skool, with my work and all...and most of all my boyfriend is giving me trouble!...i juss need sum advice please!
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One of the best things you can do right now is spend time with you mom and sister! They realy need your support. But do not forget about yourself either, don't let yourself feel guilty if you think about, you, a little bit. If you are having problems with your relationship, it may be best to take a break for alittle while, you can only handle so much. Do not let yourself get overwhelmed with everything going on around you, take it one thing at a time. Decide what things are most important right now, and handle them first. Talk to your friends and family if you need help or just some support.
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First of all, the anaemia your mum has isn't serious at all, in fact hundres of thousands of people get it and you just have to take some iron and mulitvitamin tablets. Where your sister si concerned, a good thing is that she can have surgery as that means the tumour hasn't spread. The chemotherapy after the operation will mean the cells which could form into tumours are killed off. As with your other problems, you can write to me with them if you want-telling someone your problems is the first step towards solveing them!
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For now just be there for your sister while she's going throught kemo and hope for the best. Kemo usualy does work. And your sister should get some help and mabye go to rehab. Talk to a theripist about this if you have one. They could probably help her and you. And if you don't have one, as gay as you may think it is..It helps. You can sort out your problems a lot easier by having one and get things off of your mind. For your mom, she should be fine as long as she has iron in her. She just needs to take vitimns. Since I don't know that much about your bf or grades I really don't know what to tell you. But good luck with everything. ~Jenna
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Although you may be experiencing a lot of different problems right now just remember that God gives you no more than you can bear and even still it may seems unfair. All you can do is the best you can do by helping your loved ones the best you can with out taking to much from yourself and leave the rest to God he will see you through. Just pray for his guidance and he will show you the way. Explain to your boyfriend that you are going through some troubling times with your concern for your family and let him know that you need him more than ever to stick by you through these troubling times and if he can't understant that then perhaps you should put your relationship on hold or maybe even reevalueate it because your family needs you right now. Remember when no one else will listen God will!
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You are going through a lot, and I feel for you. First of all, being anemic isn't that serious. Just make sure your mom gets lots of iron. As for your sister, pray for her and be supportive.Think positive, and find someone to talk to about all your worries that you can trust. Maybe a school counselor or a minister. I hope your other sister is getting help for her drug addiction. If your boyfriend is not being supportive in your time of need, get rid of him. You don't need the added stress. Do you really need that job? If you are in high school, and it's interfering with your school work, you should quit. It sounds like you have too much on your plate.(In other words, too many things to deal with) I hope everything works out for you. Please find someone you can trust to talk about all this. Someone kind and patient. And feel free to ask me if you need any more advice. God Bless!P.S:I'm not sure if you meant by work a job, or just school work. If it's school work, find a tutor who can help you with the subjects you are struggling with. Good luck! ((Hugs))
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