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BFF. . or not?
Hey..me and this girl were like BFF's for like 6 years in a row. . we did everything together. . .shopped,secrets,stupid fights,nails and everything! but then i introduced her to this girl that i new because she was new to the school..now her and the new girl are best friends and they ignore me all of the time! what should i do?!
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just talk to the girl and tell her how yuu feel . don`t let it hurt yuu if yuu don`t do anythinq about it . just let her know how yuu feel and just become like the three best friends . its not that hard ! qood luck hun !
xOox . katie
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Nothing you really can do. Friendships circle around, I had a friend who started going around with this girl all the time. They never asked me along, never waited around for me.. I was hurt and started pulling away. Found out my friend was getting so sick of the girl she ended up like sneaking under windows to keep from being seen and having me lie when we were hanging out, saying my friend wasn't there. Some relationships are like that. You may be best friends again next week. You many end up hating each other. Good luck, hang in there.
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if this girl was truly your friend she would not ditch you for every tom,john,and harry so if this girl was truly your friend she wouldn't be like that. i also can say that she may just be using u for a accomplish.
luv ya ,
Java Jane
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Talk to your friend about how you're feeling, definitely...but if she doesn't acknowledge how you feel, then forget her. You can't always change how someone feels, so sometimes it's just best to move on.
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I KNOW that this girl considers you a best friend. You'll always have a special bond, even if it may not show.
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Tell her that it bothers you that she ignores you when shes hanging out with the other girl. Maybe she doesn't realize that she is doing it. If you talk to her about it and she still ignores you and stuff, find some other people to hang out with. But definetly talk to her. 6 years of friendship is alot to throw away without at least trying to work it out.
::marissa::
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Hmm, kind of sounds like a fairweather friend to me. If I were you, I would move on and find someone else and another group of faithful girlfriends to hang out with. But, that's just me. The right thing to do would be to see if you are just being paranoid maybe. Talk to your two "friends" and tell them how you are feeling. Then give them about a week (school week) or so to change their ways. If they don't or their treatment towards you worsens, don't even waste anymore of your time. Just be the bigger person in this instance. Move on and find real friends. I know it may sucks, but often times teen girls mover from friend to friend in hope of being popular. Don't think you did anything wrong, you didn't! Lots of people out there to meet. Another note,keep your head up..if you see the two of them snickering about you in the hall..just smile nicely and say HEY GIRLS!, but don't attempt anything more than that. You deserve to be treated well! :)
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tell her how you feel
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