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Getting along with an Ex Boyfriend
My exbf chris and I only dated from march-july, then I broke up with him. It was more of a mutual break up, bc we just stopped talking and it was the right thing to do. Well I still care about him bc he was apart of my life for a while and I used to love him. I dont have any feelings for him I just want to be friends with him. We have pretty much been fighting since July 7th when we broke up. He says that he hates everything about me. I dont see what I do that makes him hate me so much. Hes like the only exbf of mine that says everything abuot me is terrible.I just dont get him. I have to see him everyday at school bc we are in a class together. I just want him to be friends with me. His best friend is my best friend nichole. So it is kind of hard not to care about him when he is friends with eveyrone but me. I dont even remember the last time that he and I had a good conversation.Thats all I want more then anything. I have been more depressed then anything right now and all I want to do is talk to him. He used to say back in september or w/e that he would always be here for me to talk to. Why can he still be like that? I gave up on being trying to be friends with him about 2 months ago. I want to try again. I miss him I guess. I almost killed myself and I wondered if I did it, then would he care, or would he be happy that I am dead. How can I be friends with him. I am such a sweet gurl and I have alot of friends. Guys like me, Im a good friend, why doesnt he?
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talk to him about it and tell him how u feel. It seems to me his ego was hurt. Guys are like that.He prolly felt rejected n now feels as tho he has to be defensive. Just let time heal with a lil help with you telling how exactly how you feel
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He does, sweetie. Sometimes we feel so much for a person that when it is over the only way we can let go is by reversing our emotions. It's like you saying at the begining you didn't have any feelings for him and by the end you'd like to get back together. You're just going to have to hang in there for a while. Give him some time to come to terms with letting you go, and one day you'll both either have moved on or can come back together stronger than before. Yes it hurts, and it's very depressing, but life goes through these kind of cycles all the time. Just be nice to him, ignore his nasty attitude, and let time heal. Luck and love Sweetheart!
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.... yer not sweet.... and lemme tell ya summtin....
GUYS DONT LYKE YOU, THEY ONLY WANT IN YER PANTS
and ya kno what.. i dont see why you shud care so much about some gross lyttle boy who hates you.. i been there before.. but hunn... i can deal with it.... people hatin aint a big deal dont let it git to you..
grow the fuck up and stop bein sucha whiney bitch, no wonder he hates you...
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I was going out with a guy for a couple months and then i kinda broke up with him. i heard he was saying alot of stuff about me behind my back too, and we didn't talk for like a year. but then him and his friend just started comin over to my house again. Just talk to him or have his best friend ask him what his problem is. If he still says nasty things..forget about him, he's not worth your time! hope i helped! x3
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