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omg :( my mom just died 3 hours ago and i'm a reck! i just dont kno what to do! has ne1's parents died? i'm 14/f and i do have a column here and mostr people hate me but its -- P4TH3T1Cx1426 -- and please help! even if yu hate me! i just dont kno what to doo!
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everything is going to be ok. don't worry your mom is in a better place now. i havent had parents who have died, but i have had really close friends and relatives that have. everything will be ok just don't get to down about it and do what you think your mom would want you to do. life is not all what it seems.
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oh my qosh ! ii am soo sorry ! and don`t think that anyone hates yuu . ii know ii don`t . ii have not experienced somethinq like that but ii know that it kills and it is really hard . the best thinq to do is to just try and deal with it or maybe qet some help from a support qroup or counseler or a friend . otherwise yuu can ask me anythinq . just don`t hurt yourself physically and remember that it is ok to cry . ii am soo sorry hunny !
xOox . katie
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i'm sorry that your mom died....feel free to leave me some stuff in my inbox! i love yoU!
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Well, first and foremost my condolences to you and the rest of your family. I am sorry to hear of your loss. I know it's a really hard thing to deal with. The key thing to remember is you will always have those wonderful memories, and sometimes not so wonderful memories..but at least they are memories. You will always have the past, and your mother's love and affection and her spirit. It is a part of who you are. That will never go away. No one can take that away. I know this is a HUGE and hard thing for someone of your age to deal with. Sometimes though, God let's something tramatic happen to the people we love in order for us to become closer to him. I know it seems unfair and rash, but everyone has their different ways of expressing things. It's okay to cry about this. Don't feel like you can't cry. Cry your heart out. Pray. Go to church and vent. Talk to your family. Take off as much time as you need from school. Be strong. That's what your Mom would have wanted you to do. If you are close to your dad, or whatever family member you may be closets sit down with them and talk, shares your emotions and feelings. You'll feel better to vent. This is going to take some time. You really can;t get over something like this all too fast. And, don't push yourself to either. Go and recover at your own pace. When you feel up to it, get back to the school and be prepared to have friends come up to you and consol you or apologize for your lost..be brave. You just have to think that your mom is now in a better place and that was part of God's plan for your mom as well as you. It may help you to speak at your mom's funeral. It's up to you. Don't force yourself to do anything you aren't ready to. In time, you'll cry less, laugh more, and love always. You can get through this. God wouldn't have let this happen if he didn't think you could overcome this. If you ever need anyone to talk to, I am always here. Again, sorry for your lost. Best wishes and God Bless. :)
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hey girl im soo sorry its ok lots of ppls parents die your jus goin to have to relaize shes gone and not comin back jus learn to be happy and think of all tha good times yall had and kno she'll always be with your heart and if that doesnt work jus cry it all out bc its ok to cry and relie on your freinds theyll be there for you and i am too! I wis h u good luck
Blayre
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Aww sweetie! I dont hate you, and I bet a lot of people dont hate you!! Look, 1-800-448-4663 is a number you can call, its toll free and you can talk to someone. If you dont want to call that number, you can talk to me..email: vsgangstaboo420@yahoo.com or aim at sherry7pchik or leave 1 in my inbox. I'm sooo sorry!
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