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I have this big problem with friends. I can make them easily but I just can't stick with them. I don't even know if my current friends consider me their friends.
I thought in junior high I'd start over and make new friends.Well, it turns out I made a lot of friends. I don't know if they still think of me as their friends anymore though. I hang out with them and talk to them a lot the first few weeks. Then, after awhile they start talking about people from their old schools. I never know what to say so I just say a few words. After awhile, I stop saying stuff to them and just stop hanging out with them. Then I start hanging out with them again. They don't talk to me anymore. It's like I'm just a tag-a-long. There's this thing called lunch club. All the people with D's or F's go there at lunchtime Wednesday through Friday. This makes it so I can't hang out with any of my friends. Now I sort of wish I were in lunch club. Err. I had to have a change of schedule. Well, I had made some friends in those classes. Now I'm in classes where I hate everyone and they hate me too so I just act mean to them. I just started to hang out in the library at lunch so that nobody could hang out with me. It's not like anyone cares about me anyways. It sucks. That's why I hate school now.
Also, I had a problem like this in elementary when the kids started ignoring me. My old friends from elementary go to a different school and I haven't talked to them in a long time. I don't know if I should start talking to them or what. They'll probably be in my school in high school though....
Could someone help me?
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OMG i remeber jr high drama.. lol Trust me things get better! Ure going to meet so many new people when you get into highschool and ure going to have the best times there! Everyone is jus trying to start who they are in jr high and it seems like theres always drama or something happenning and i hated that too. Everyone seems to chnage in highscHool so if iwas you i jus woukdnt worry becuase if its hell for you now it will get better!
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yeah.. i know what you are going through.. i had the same experience and still do now.. the best thing I can tell you to do is to talk to the people you are more familiar with and hang out with them and make them your official group to hang out with.. and then after that everone else just seems to be regular people.. that's what I did and now i'm happy with the people I hang out with
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making frenz is easy..keeping them is a whole nother story..it sounds like you are a pretty likable person..you make friends right away..so i don't think you are doing anything wrong.be yourself with people. people will like you for YOU, not what you are NOT! talk to your principal on this lunch thing.tell him/her that you are having problems with people at lunch and maybe he/she will work with you and put you with your currents friends.hope i helped! x0LAllyp0p
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Maybe the ignore you because you let yourself be ignored, just go crazy and make everyone look at you. Wear a cat suit.
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