Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 4:21 pm
Well, im the one who asked whether or not i should date eric because my friend erika likes him, and i took everyones advice n im dating him, EXCEPT today she found out and she called and she sounded pissed and said she needed to talk to me or else tomorrow im gunna get it to my face. i cant really fight face to face cuz i start shaking so i def* have to call her, does any body know anything i can say? like she SHOULD be happy for me.. and i jus dunno shes gunna hate me n everything please help!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? dinoold answered Thursday November 18 2004, 8:12 am: oh man..did she like him first? I am sorry to say this..but sometime guys just do not like us..so it may be hard on her..but hello..if the guy wanted to date her..he would of. but you have to make this decison..is the guy worth losing your freind over?? For to me she sounds kind of psycho over him..Yes she should be happy for you..but she is not..and I am betting in future she will not change..plus she may do things to break you up..so you have to decide if she or he is worth this. [ dinoold's advice column | Ask dinoold A Question ]
sUnsEt_rOO18 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:11 pm: its not your fault!! just say its not fair if both of u two like each other and say "well if he liked you back would u do the same and go out with him too" she most definetly would!! itll all settle out..but remember frienships last longer than relationships so dont ditch the friend for the guy if it comes to that.sorry about that!! --rachael [ sUnsEt_rOO18's advice column | Ask sUnsEt_rOO18 A Question ]
PerkyPeacock answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:06 pm: tell her it's your life and even if she likes him, if you like her and he likes you, you're allowed to have some happiness. you don't need her permission to date. you may be sorry that she got hurt in the process and you should tell her that, but tell her that you aren't going to fight her because she's jealous. she isn't the center of your universe and you don't have to stop liking a guy just because she likes him, life doesn't work like that. [ PerkyPeacock's advice column | Ask PerkyPeacock A Question ]
Adrz answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:25 pm: SHe shouldnt be pissed at you...Because obviously the guy liked you more, just tell her that...Dont act scared of her, stand up to her and act like you can beat the shit out of her, even though you
might not be able too. It will get better...
-Hope i helped [ Adrz's advice column | Ask Adrz A Question ]
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 5:18 pm: you have to tell her the truth and break it down for her. you like him, but you dont want for that to break up ur guys friendship. so tell her that you both either have to stop liking him or there will be a big problem. and STAY TRUE to the cokmpromise as much as you can! that is, without blowing him off.
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