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My ex
im a 13 year old female. I went out with this boy "Sam" for about 2 months, which i know isnt very long, but i have also been freinds with him for over a year now. he is really a great guy. and he really liked me but i ended b/c it was just to weird. im not prude or a jesus loving "goody goody" but i wouldnt make out let alone kiss him along those 2 months.(in fact i am eagerly waiting to get my first kiss) but anyway, now he has another girlfreind and well...she is the kind of girl that has already lost her virginity, comes to school stoned...just not exactly a model citazen. and i know this girl too and she is SOOO SWEET, but im just really worried that this girl may change "sam" and he may start making horribly wrong choices. supposedly, they have already made out and have been going together for 2 days. i just dont want to lose him to the wrong people. can anyone give me any advice on this situation?
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well first off... where the heck do you live... you are in junior high or high ... what do you expect? People who aren't sluts go up to random hot people and make out with them... if they're going out, what do you think they'll do? And people who do marijuana are usually really cool people. If it's his decision to do those "bad" things... he'll do them and nobody can stop him. But if you really care, talk to him. Just dont tell him that your "worried that he's hanging out with the wrong people" that pisses people off and often leads them to start doing those things. ehh good luck in keeping your ex as he is. Just remember though, people often change, and sometimes change is good - so don't stress too much.
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well i think that you should write him a note or e-mail him about it and tell him how great a guy he is but you like this gril and stuff but you dont want him to change. Because that happend with me and my x and he is a horrible guy now an i miss how he use to be... well you should say sumtin b4 he changes an quick! hope this helped!
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Well...you could sit down with him and tell him how you feel about this girl..i sense you really have feelings for him so you should show him how much you care...maybe you and him will grow stronger and have a better relationship!
I hope my advice helps...GOodLUCK
~*~TinaBug~*~
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Hey girl well if u are really good freinds with sam tell him how u feel but dont interfer with him and this girl bc say you say somin and it bothers him u might end up lossin him as a freind and u dont wanna do that do you ! soo jus tell him once look i liek ur g.f and all and i would love for yall to go out bc im very happy for you i jus think that if she trys to persudae u to do rong things dont listen to her! and leave it at that!
good luck
Blayre
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tell sam how youre worried about him.. getting corrupted from this girl. She comes off wrong because she thinks its cool and wat evryone else is doing probably & don't let her change sam. Tell him how you care about him so much and you know he's a good person n' you really dont want such a sweetie to change ! Hope i helped.. x0x muah - jess
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