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new guy in my life
This guy is new to one of my classes. He's extremely cute, funny, sweet, smart and just really outgoing. He's always asking to borrow my notes, and no one else's. He does anything to try to find a way to sit next to me, too. I can't even tell if our conversations are flirting or just normal chit chat. I'm starting to really like him, but I do have a boyfriend. I just can't help daydreaming about this boy. He's not like any other boy I've ever met and he seems to possibly, like me back. We've only been talking for a a week or so, and I'm just scared if I lead on I like him, he'll back away. Should I just flirt for now or try to be more forward about how I'm feeling?
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sounds like this boy really likes u! but dont jump 2 conclusions! U have only met dis boy a few weeks ago!dis boy prob likes u, but u still have a boyfriend who u spent alot of time with and ur relationship with ur boyfriend is much deeper then u would expect!
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See how he feels about you and if he likes you then go out with him
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I'd say flirt until you and your boyfriend break up. Then after you're single again see if he does anything to be more forward about his feelings, and then if he does, you can go for it and be as open as you want about your feelings. Hope I helped. -Manda
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Well the first thing that you need to consider is how much you actually like your current boyfriend. I mean if everythings fine there (which Im guessing its not) then why go looking for somebody else. But then again we all have feelings for other people even when we are in relationships it just depends on whether you want to take them further. I would guess that this boy probably does like you and if you want him then make a move but a suttle move. Just make eye contact with him, flirt with him in a friendly manner, but make it clear that you like him, but first finish with your boyfriend if thats what you want.
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don't do anything until you figure out what to do about your boyfriend. if you flirt with this guy and he goes for it, what will happen to your current relationship? decide if your willing to break up with your boyfriend over this guy, then write in about how to talk to this guy.
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Whoa, whoa. First off, I think you have a decision to make...who do you want to be with, your boyfriend or this guy? If you want to be with this guy, break up with your boyfriend before you start flirting and letting him know you like him. If you want to be with your boyfriend, lay off flirting with this guy, and get rid of your li'l crush on him.
If you decide you want to be with this guy, break it off with your boyfriend. THEN after you've done that, you can do whatever you want - flirt or be forward...heck, jump on the boy and start making out with him...(kidding...just kidding...)but NOT while you have a boyfriend! I'm very opinionated on the whole "no cheating" thing. I know you're not talking about cheating, but to me, getting a crush on someone else and considering telling the guy you like him is like cheating. That's just me, though.
I hope this helped on some level!
-Siren =)
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