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annoying b/f
My friend has been going out with this immature guy for like 7 months now. He is soo rude to her like not returning phone calls, making fun of her friends (like me for instance), blowing her off for his friends. I was open with her telling her how i felt about him, but she didn't care at first. Now she's thinking about dumping him, but she just doesn't have the heart to.
Any advice on what she should do? I rate high! thanks in advanced.
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Well, maybe you can talk to her again about him and try to help her dump him. I mean she most likely deserves better, and you obviously don't deserve to be made fun of, and if he is soo rude like that, hes not worth hurting yourself over. Tell her that. Well, hope I helped, and good luck to both of you! <3
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the best thing to do is let her learn from her own mistake..she'll figure out she is stupid for dating him and break up with him eventually! =) just give it time! and in the meantime..just keep on trying to talk to your best friend! i hope i helped! rate me please!
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Its got to be hard in your position, because you have to just watch your friend go through this, but it is really her choice. The only thing you can do anything about is him making fun of you. Talk to her about that, and tell her that she deserves better, but that is really all that you can do at this point.
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U shud tell her "as a friend, i'm telling u that shud break up wit him. PLease listen to me." This way, it wont seem like yur attacking her with it, but that yur just looking out for her. Tell her that she deserves much better, and that she shudnt waist her time on sumone as rude as him. But then again, they HAVE been dating for 7 months. They cud be meant for eachother, and u dont wanna ruin it. So u mite wanna let her decide. Sure, u can give her yur advice, but frum then on its all her. If she really luvs him, then u u shud let her be happy, even if it means hurting u. Thats wat friends are for.
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she should be open with the guy...i know that i personaly had that same problem before but now if i see that i really cant do it i am straight forward with the person
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If he's not treating her right she should definitely dump him. If she really loves him, maybe she should have a serious heart to heart talk with him, and lay it all on the line. She needs to be honest with him, and tell him exactly what she doesn't like about him. If he really loves her he should be willing to change. If not then he's not worth it.
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It's hard watchin your friend go thru what you know is a mistake isn't it?! But the thing about it is,you have to let her make her own mistakes and learn from them!She'll be a much better person for it!!!As for what should she do,if she's really upset with his behavior,which I could see why,she needs to sit him down and let him know!Talk to him and let him know how she's feeling.If he's not willing to listen,talk about it,or work it out together,in my opinion,he's not worth the pain.She deserves a guy that will take her feelings into consideration!You shouldn't ever settle for less than that.By letting someone walk all over you and get away with anything you're sending off a strong message about your character and self-esteem!!Believe me,I've been there!!So,my advice is talk to him.If he's a jerk about it,which it sounds like he quite possibly will be,give him his walking papers!!Haha! Hope this helps ya some!! ;)
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talk to her again and help her through the situation if she wants to brake up wiht him help her find things to say maby practice try to help her get the heart
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if your friend wants/ needs to dump this guys but she doesn't have the heart to, it might just take her awhile. If she needs help, remind her how rude he is to you and her other friends, if shes a friend she will understand.
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talk to her again....and if she's too afraid to do it, ask her if she wants you to. I am personally not a fan of "friends friend's break-ups" but sometimes people are really shy and they need a little push... If she allows you to talk to him...just tell him how you feel about him, and hopefully she'll either break up with him, or have you do it!
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I know its hard to break up with someone but tell your friend this: okay, she doesnt have the heart to, but does her boy have a heart also? I mean who really is that rude to someone that they care about? your friend can find SOOO much better! this guy sounds like a complete jerk. have your friend show her dignity. have her show this guy too that she isnt chopped liver and that she is a person w/ feelings and has great friends etc. i hope i helped. good luck to you and your friend and God bless! <3
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