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lonely and depressed
age 14
female
i had a boyfriend, we were going out for 1 and 1/2 years and we were doing really good and he broke with me for one of my good friends and she promised she would never go out with him and she said yes . now shes always rubbing it ibn my face well i have him now and you dont and stuff like that, but i know i sound but i pathetic but whe was my best friend before he was my bf an i miss him. how do i feel better??
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well obviously shes no real friend lose her
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you forget about them and tell her hey have him i DO NOT want him..if shes rubbin it in your face make her feel like shit like she made u feel! and forget him i bet u deserve better!!!!
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FIND A NEW GUY!! THAT WONT DUMP U AND DATE UR BF! hope i helped! KLG 00X
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wow, they're both jerks. Theres nothing you can really do to feel better, but just don't show (both of them) that it bothers you because they'll want to do it more. if your friend keeps rubbing it in say "I don't care." and if your ex is being an ass just be easygoing about it so he'll know that you're better than him.
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Dear Lonely and Depressed,
First off, she was never your friend. Friends don't do those things to eachother. I'm 21 years old and I would never think of doing anything to hurt my friends. Apparently this guy doesnt have a heart either because he wouldnt have done that to you either. Basically there are 2 things that you can do. If I were you I'd cut off ties with both of them. This will show her that you're really upset with her and that you don't need that kind of friend in your life. The second thing that you can do is to act like you don't care. If she knows that it bothers you shes gonna keep getting on you about it. She honestly might be the kind of friend that shes just doing this to see what kind of reaction she can get out of you. These, I feel, are your 2 choices. Both are very hard to do. But I promise, you'll get through it. Good Luck *Melissa*
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OMG!! What kind of a best fRiend is THAT? I say ditch those loseRs!! They'Re not woRth youR time -OR- youR teaRs!! You can do *MUCH* betteR!! And how do you feel betteR? Well, I'm not shoRe what kind of music ya dig, but what always helps me is blasting some female empoweRing music; such as : Madonna, ChRistina AguileRa, Mandy MooRe, Janet Jackson, Michelle BRanch, P!nk, and BRitney SpeaRs!! I wish you the veRy best!! Feel betteR, Hun! Hope I helped!! =D
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Hey,
That Happened to me to except we were going out for four years. Well the best thing to feel better is just try and get over him. And about you friend well... she is being really mean that's not a really good friend. Just tell her that you still like him and tell her to please stop rubbing it in your face. I mean that's really rude. And it hurts really bad.
I hoped I Helped,
Hailey
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thats horrible and cruel. you should realize that they arent that great of people because they did that to you. also, realize that you are better off with out them. not speaking with them, would help you forget and feel better. i say, go put on your favorite music and forget about those cruel people.
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