Last yr my bf cheated on me 3 times so i broke up wit him. Yesterday he asked me bak out and i said yes because i have liked him all summer.But i am afraid of him cheating on me again or breaking up wit me way too soon like he used to. Please help me what should i do?
xoxoGlamGlamxoxo answered Saturday July 31 2004, 7:30 pm: GIRL! you should break up with him if he cheated on you 3 times. you need a guy that loves you and that won't cheat on you , you deserve better girly! dump him and go find you dream guy...i hope everything works out :) [ xoxoGlamGlamxoxo's advice column | Ask xoxoGlamGlamxoxo A Question ]
obabisocute answered Saturday July 31 2004, 6:53 pm: It is a good thing that you gave him a second chance. Everyone deserves a second chance. The way you can tell if he's cheating on you is if he does the following:
1)Spends too much time with the "guys" and not enough time with you.
2)He starts saying he thinks that you are cheating on him (guilty)
3)Never calls,IMs, or emails you.
BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY...
4)If he starts wearing turtlenecks or scarfs even though it's 100 degrees outside (you know what that means.)
TucanFullOfHoles answered Saturday July 31 2004, 4:26 pm: Well, you shouldn't have started going out with him again in the first place.
If you must stay with him, tell him you don't want him to hurt you because you really like him. Tell him that you are having trouble trusting him again after that. [ TucanFullOfHoles's advice column | Ask TucanFullOfHoles A Question ]
CheerMMS24 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:42 pm: Okay, if this boy has cheated on you before, why do you trust him now? If you really like him that much, then just keep an eye on what hes doing, and have your friends also do that, so if he does cheat on you.. then you'll know. If he asked you out, im sure he won't break up with you too soon. But if you really like him, stay with him. I hope I helped!
XoXo
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BabiiBubbles answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:41 pm: Don't give him anymore more chances, I know you care about him.. But obviously he doesn't care about you as much as you care for him if he's was cheating on you that many times. I'd say you should break up with him immediately, because he thinks he can keep getting you back so then when he has you, he'll just do this all over again repeadily. dump him, he's not worth it! You already gave him more than 3 chances, three strikes, he's out!
*ashlee* answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:40 pm: then dont go back out with him. break up with right now, hes bad news. it sounds like all hes doing is using you. you can do much better..break up with him the next chance you get. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
*MaCky* answered Saturday July 31 2004, 1:29 pm: i think you try to make it work one more time b/c maybe this time he has realized how much he likes you and didn't mean to cheat on you. But if you think later on he might be cheating on you dump him imediatley!!!!
rate me!!
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BeastFromTheWeast answered Saturday July 31 2004, 1:21 pm: Even though you still have feelings for him, it wasnt a wise move to get back together. What if he is already with a girl right now and he is cheating on her with you? If he is causing you to always be on the edge of your seat wondering whether he is going to cheat on you..or break up with you..than you arent going to have fun in the relationship anyway because you will always be worried about whats going to happen next. Once a cheater..always a cheater. You can do better than him. I say dump the loser. :) [ BeastFromTheWeast's advice column | Ask BeastFromTheWeast A Question ]
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