I've been having troubles with making friends. I had a lot before. But now they've all turned on me since I started going out with this one guy. They call me a #### ... and they think I "sleep around" .. Which I most certainley dont. And I can't seem to understand why they would say all of these mean things to me. I just want it to all end. What should I do?
Sincerly,
Truly Confused.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? justletmebe answered Friday May 21 2010, 8:53 pm: wow that sounds like my senoir year. i ended up making friends with a girl a year younger then me that was in one of my classes, all i needed was one really good female friend then i went and partied with older people. not like 50 or nothng but in there 20s dont worry about there childish games go have fun. i am asuming you are still in high school if not sorry. just forget them if they turned on you that fast they will agian just get one really good friend and have fun with life its not quainty its quality lol good luck :) [ justletmebe's advice column | Ask justletmebe A Question ]
OhMyLucyDarling answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 10:39 am: True friends don't call each other names, You are looking in the wrong places.
A true friend, Will except you for who you are and will never judge you. As the user below me said you need to start standing up for yourself NOT in a mean way but ignoring others rude comments will show them that you are mature enough to handle yourself. If you like this guy and he treats you the way you should be treated then that is all that should matter. Happiness in a relationship is not about what your friends think or what others have to say it is about you and that one person. Keep trying and don't give up, There are many people who I'm sure would love to be your friend you just have to find the right ones. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 9:53 am: I think you should stand up for yourself you should
never allow anyone to call you names & say things that aren't true because only you know the truth you
should confront them & say they need to stop calling
you names and thinking that you sleep around when you don't defend yourself don't allow them to push you around & treat you badly they aren't your friends if they say those things about you & treat you that way you need real friends who will treat you better & who won't say mean things to you deserve to be treated better nobody deserves to be treated that way that's just wrong(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
sunset-bluffer answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 11:28 am: There is one word to sum this up.. JELOUS!
They are all most probably jelous of you becasue maybe they are not in a relationship or they are to scared or something along those lines. Just carry on take no notice they are the pathetic ones, surely you dont need them in your life if they are like that or even just have a chat with them and say what is this all about you are suppossed to be my friends that means supporting me and not being a bunch of bitches! [ sunset-bluffer's advice column | Ask sunset-bluffer A Question ]
sarahadelson answered Saturday July 24 2004, 9:42 pm: You should just forget about what they say. Trust me if you dont give a shit about what the think than your life will be SO much better. Try hanging out with a different croud. You dont need them anyways. Call them pansy ass fuckers. Thats some good shit. [ sarahadelson's advice column | Ask sarahadelson A Question ]
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