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14 Male hmm I really need advise
If you got a friend that your really trying to be close to and this girl lets say wants to be close with you to only when shes mad she threatins to hurt herself and takes her anger out on you and everyday you bring up someone else she gets jealous and thinks your replacing her and gets mad at you for stupid stuff and says that it's all your fault at the end when you barly did anything wrong in the first place what do you do to try and make it work or try to fix the problem I mean how can you deal with someone like this should I let her go cause im afraid to cause she might go and kill herself she has tried before so I know she dosn't say it for attention...
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Your friend needs help. She is seriously disturbed and likely suicidal. Tell an adult or her mom. She may be saying it because she knows she needs help.
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threateninG to kill Yourself is a verY serious thinG...I used to trY to hurt mYself but I never told People about it...I tried to hide it as best I could but one daY someone saw it and it Got back to mY mom and she sent me to the hosPital riGht awaY and let me tell You the hosPital is not a fun Place AT ALL! but it stoPPed me from doin it anYmore...maYbe You should exPlain how You feel to her and tell her that if she trYs to hurt herself then Your GoinG to have to Go to an adult...tell her Your not doinG it to hurt her Your doinG it to helP her and she maY not realize it now but she will eventuallY trust me...
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One thing I need to tell you straight up, and you're just going to have to believe me. People that go around telling the whole entire world they're about to off themselves are doing it to get attention. I have no doubt that she hasn't hurt herself before. But know this, people that have true pain, you never know about it, because they don't tell.
People like this bring you down. Really. And this shouldn't be happening. You need to realize that this isn't just her life you should be worrying about. Yours is also on the line. Why would you want to waste life on someone like this? I do realize she is a close friend of yours. But if she were a true "close friend" she would realize that you have your own life, and your own friends. And this poor girl is paranoid. Make sure she knows that she means alot to you, and you'll always be there for her, but you have to get something back in return, or your friendship is going to suck. And then you are going to fill up with so much anger, and one day explode on her. And that, my friend, isn't going to be pretty. Because that will hurt her more than telling her upfront how you feel, and what is going on. So by doing this. You will be saving future tragedy. And if nothing improves, think about telling someone that is capable of getting her a therapist. Because someone that is trained in this type of thing will be much more able to help her than you will.
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Try to help her. Make sure she knows that you're always there for her (if you want to be). I thin it'll help things if she knows she can trust you. Just be there for her. And try to get her help- but be really careful around her. Tell someone if you think you need to- but don't tell her. if ya need me, drop a line- I've been there... rain2follow@yahoo.com- or at my column
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I would get her some help. Like, call a help hotline or something, or try and make her go to a counselour. I think you 2 should stay friends but she just needs to get some help first.
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