I am so in love with this boy named Jake. He was EVERYTHING I have ever wanted in a guy. He was so fine and sexy and every girl wanted him. Well, last Friday we went to his house and were making out on his bed when he asked me if I wanted to have sex. I said no, but he wasnt going to take no for an answer. He ripped off my clothes and fucked me and hit me a few times. I guess you can say, I was raped. I need to tell my mom but she will tell me to stay away from Jake and I'm too in love to lose him! Do I tell my mom? How can I stay with Jake forever?
It's going to be really hard to accept this, and you should have someone to talk to. Talk to a friend if you don't want to talk to your mum (although I think you should, but it's your choice) or look up a rape hotline.
ErIn answered Monday June 28 2004, 1:09 am: Well for one thing basically he abused you and if he did it that time he moer than likely will do it again , so yes tell your mother and give him a second chance if he ask fo rit if he does somethhing like this again then you need to let him go . [ ErIn's advice column | Ask ErIn A Question ]
*~bre_babbles~* answered Sunday June 27 2004, 10:55 pm: You should not have to tell your mom unless you really wanna!! But if this happens again than you should definetly tell your mom and then stay away from him!!
LilMia811 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 4:46 pm: YOU HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE. Even if it is Jake, you have to tell somone how you feel about what happened. Maybe he didn't see it that way or something. Find out why he did it that way and didn't listen to you. If he acts like he doesn't care how you felt about the situation and isn't sorry, then you have no reason to love him and you need to get his ass in trouble. Good Luck! :)
storageanddisposal answered Sunday June 27 2004, 3:20 pm: In my opinion, wanting to stay with someone who raped you is a little mentally ill. If I were you, I'd tell your mother and never see him again. It definitely wouldn't be healthy to actually have a relationship with this sex-crazed date rapist. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Sunday June 27 2004, 2:48 pm: Oh My Goodness! I am SO sorry you got raped! First off, don't stay with Jake! If he loved you in return, he wouldnt have ever raped you or forced you have sex!!
Secondly, tell your mom and the police! Jake can be arrested for something like that! Especially if you got the bruises to prove it, he's a criminal! This is a very big deal and you shouldnt want to stay with that boy!! Good luck!!
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