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brother n his gf
My brother has a gf. and i like her as a friend (im a girl im not lesbian) shes a good girl. and she wont break his heart. hes been hurt in the past. thing is he has like these mood swings and he has a trust issue with people outside of me and the rest of my bros. she wants to help him out and understand him better but like i said before he has a trust issue. but he says he loves her and everything. thing is i know that she wont stand for his mood swings and all that much longer i want to help him and her so they stay together. i dont want my brother to get his heart broke again. they're a good couple. HELP!
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DEAR SIBBLING,
YOU NEED TO TELL HIM ABOUT YOUR CONCERN AND LET HIM NO THAT YOU ARE THERE FOR HIM. SIT HIM AND HER DOWN AND TALK TO THEM ABOUT HIS MOOD SWINGS,
SINCERLY: ADVICE GIVER.
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Does the G/F know about these issues? Maybe you should tell her, or get your bro to tell her. I'm sure she will understand and stay with him, unless he starts getting abusive. Has your brother tryed counceling or going to a doctor for help? Maybe its somthing he and your family should consider.
Good luck :)
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Try to convince your brother to open up to his girlfriend. He might listen to you considering you're one of the few he trusts. My friend, S., had the same problem with her boyfriend, he could open up to her, and had weird moods. She eventually dumped him. If he really loves her, he should be able to trust her, and open up to her. But if he can't, and she breaks up with him, then I guess they just weren't meant to be together. But you'll still have both of them as friends, they just won't be together. Trust is normally essential in a healthy relationship.
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