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I like a guy with a girlfriend
I'm 13 years old, a girl, and I go to school with this boy. We are always flirting and I like him a lot. I would like to date him, but he has a girlfriend. He is wonderful, and I would do anything to go out with him. Is there anyway to get him to like me more than her? or some other way for him to dump her and to be with him? Any way for me to be with him is ok, I am open to any suggestions.
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well hun, dont push ur self into him..make him see ur better than her..but dont become a hoe and let him think ur easy so he will dump her for u and then dump u...and also dont wait around for him..explore all ur other opportunities..just be urself around him and hopefully he will see what kind of girl u r and if he doesnt then u deserve better!
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Well whatever you do don't make this girl mad because then she'll tell her boyfriend not to talk to you and you might get called a hoe and all sorts of stuff. Just be cool with him.. maybe stop flirtin so much because then he want feel like your leadin him on and alot of guys find it kinda sexi when a girl plays hard to get. I mean don't get me wrong you should still talk to him. Sometimes the best thing happen last. But I wouldn't worry too much girl because your only 13 (i'm guessin he's close to your age because you go to same school) guys and girls get together and break up.. I'll bet you a million dollars this couple want last THAT long.
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I know what that is like. First of all, you need to keep talking to him, but keep your flirting friendly. Next, it's okay to want him to end his relationship with his girlfriend, but you can't do anything about it. Just be patient, and keep talking to him. And make sure you don't make it too obvious you like him. That might turn him away. Guys like hard-to-get girls. Trust me on that one. But like i said, be persistent about being his friend. I'm not sure if he'll immediately fall in love with you, but it should keep you near him alot. You won't lose him anytime soon. And when he does break up with his girlfriend, you might be his first choice ;)
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First off, dating at 13 is something I find a little... rediculous. What are you gonna do? Have your mom drive to movies?
But I'm getting off topic.
To answer your question, the best thing to do is WAIT IT OUT. You're 13, I assume he's the same age. Relationships at your age last an average of 1 month. If he's flirting with you than he's already interested to some extent. He may even be looking for a way out of the relationship he's in to be with you (but no promisies). What ever you do, DO NOT do anything to break him and his current. That will only make you look bad to him and everyone else around you. You don't want the reputation of being a home-wrecker at 13.
Just wait it out. You'll be glad you did.
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I know how it feels like to find that someone special and wanting to be with that person at all costs. But unfortunately we can't make him/her like us, just as we can't make ourselves like someone else. If you push him and force him to make a choice between you and his girlfriend, you're not giving him or yourself the fair opportunity. I'm sure you want him to want you out of his own choice and like you for who you are. So don't rush it.
If he really likes you, he will leave his girlfriend. Till then try getting to know him as a friend and be yourself. But one thing that bothers me is that he is flirting with you even though he has a girlfriend. So, what stops him from flirting with other girls apart from you or worse, flirting with someone else when you're his girlfriend?
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I wouldn't do much. It might be obvious that you're trying to break them up if you try anything. If that happens, the boy might get mad. I would just wait it out, a lot of relationships don't last very long at this age anyway.
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You may really like this guy and you may really want to go out with him. But if he already has a girlfriend it's WRONG for you to do stuff like that. It's really bad of you. Think of how you make that girl feel. You should wait until he decides he doesn't like that girl anymore before trying to seduce him, as it seems that's what you're trying to do...
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From your raving about him, he sounds like a great guy. However, I don't reccomend involving yourself in their relationship. If you get him to like you more than her, it counts as breaking them up, which isn't nice by any means. If he's the only guy you could ever go for, the only thing to do is to wait. If they break up, be there for him and all that jazz. If they don't, move on. You may choose to move on over waiting if you think they have a solid relationship. Whatever you do, don't try to break them up. If you're meant to be with him, it'll happen. If not, it won't. Let fate do its thing. =) Good luck!
-Siren
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