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i need him


Question Posted Saturday May 15 2004, 6:51 pm

I'll try to keep this short... My ex boyfriend broke up with me, and we were going out for like 4 months (i'm in 5th grade I know I'm young but don't pay any attention to that please) and then he broke up with me, and went with my friend Layla. I really want him back, and I still LOVE him so much. I don't want to hurt Layla but do you have any ideas how to get him bacK??!!?!??!! I really need him sooo please! HELP! ASAP!

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lovyduby answered Friday May 21 2004, 5:18 pm:
Try talking to him or somebody who has had the same problem

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beautiful007 answered Friday May 21 2004, 10:03 am:
girl you don't need him is that he's your first and that's the first person you like so of course you are going to feel like you need him but then another boy is going to come along and you are going to forget about him.

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rilygurl91 answered Thursday May 20 2004, 9:12 pm:
You don't need him, move on with your life, and talk to someone.

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gogirl6830 answered Wednesday May 19 2004, 6:51 pm:
well try to look your best at school,,,,,,but don't acted prepy because your friends will treat you different

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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday May 16 2004, 10:04 pm:
If your ex is still with your friend, leave them alone. Age has nothing to do with mentality. One of my boyfriends did the same thing to me. My advice is this: Move on. I know you want him, but trust me. As my friend told me, "No man is worth a woman's tears. When you find the right one, he won't make you cry." Don't think about getting him back. Think about finding someone better. Good luck!
-Siren

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lynx_wings answered Sunday May 16 2004, 9:46 pm:
If he broke up with you for your friend, regardless of the trouble that might cause for you and Layla, then I can't see why you'd want to be with him in the first place.

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Saturday May 15 2004, 8:35 pm:
Well, I think that if you are in 5th grade and could keep it going for 4 months, then you are mature enough. I'm in 8th grade, and most people can't keep a relationship going for more than a month. Anyway, about your problem. Well, Layla hurt you by going out with him, so why are you worried about hurting her? Layla is not your friend, she sounds like a backstabber to me. To get him back, start talking to him more. Call him a couple of times. Act like you did when you were going out.

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BewareOfCat2 answered Saturday May 15 2004, 7:43 pm:
fifth grade?!?!

You need to move on. Your what 10 or 11? That is WAY to young to be going head over heals over some guy. My advice is, get over it. It's a boy. There are PLENTY more in the world!

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storageanddisposal answered Saturday May 15 2004, 7:12 pm:
You are young, but since you asked, it won't factor into my advice. It seemed like he has moved on, so the healthy thing would be to move on too. If you do want to get him back though, it won't be easy, especially since he's the one who ended it. Try to act aloof, and not needy. After four months, you probably developed a closeness to him, right? So just tell him how you feel. If he rejects your love, the only thing you can do is find some form of closure. The first step is to talk to other guys, which will lead to thinking about other guys, which will lead to the closure.

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