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in love but she loves more then just me.
me and my friend amanda have known each other for a little bit over three months. within these three months i went out with her best friend and she went out with mine. but 2 months into our friendship we fell in love with eachother. i broke up with my g/f not just cause of her but she was one of the main reasons. but anyway she is still goin out with one of my bestfriends, and me and her have already gone out on "dates" if u will and i have kissed her. but 2 weeks ago she said we cant be friends. well we became friends and fell in love again and went on a "date". she is still goin out with my friend though. she says she loves me but idk if she is just makin it up or what. me and her are always on the phone at least 2 or 3 hours a day. and i love her more than anything. i dont kno what to do about all of this. please tell me what to do.
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There is no other way to put this. You are a horrible friend! But I've been there. Look, first things first, you have to tell your "best Friend" the truth about what's going on before he finds out on his own! I understand you love her but love can not survive on a lie. How would you feel if your friend was doing this to you? You have to consider that. You have to do the right thing. If you are both in love then it shouldn't be a problem for you to tell your friend what's going on! I'm telling you if you continue on the path that you are on now people are going to get hurt, friendships will end and you will have a major regret you will have to live with for the rest of your life!
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I beleive that your friend/girlfriend is undecided on what she should do. I beleive that she see's qualities in you that she desires, but she also desire's qualities in this other guy too. You have to make up your mind as to whether or not you are going to tolerate her behavior.
You mentioned that in 2 months the both of you fell in love. I want you to ask yourself this question....If she really loved you, do you think she would have ended your relationship that way that she did?
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Seems like a very awkward situation. It was a very noble thing of you to brake it off with your old girlfriend if things were happening like this. It looks like you two just have to brake a communication barrier. I would suggest talking to this girl and telling her how painful it is to see her with this other guy, when she insists she loves you. Asking her what she really wants might help also. It seems to me like she does have feelings for you, but likes her boyfriend also and doesn't want to hurt him and leave him for his best friend, which also may conflict your relationship with him. She has a lot to consider. First try to get down to bare facts and talk it out. Hope this helps!
Best of luck to you.
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Hopefully I'm getting this. You love a girl whose dating your best friend, and she hasn't stopped seeing him. She loves you. You stopped dating your girlfriend (Her best friend) Mainly so you two can be together, and then she tells you she doesn't want to be friends anymore. Does that mean she wants to be more than friends, or that she doesn't want to see you anymore. Then you two fall in love again, and man... Man this has to be an emotional rollercoaster for you. You have my sympathy.
You said that you two were in love now, right? And you talk to her for hours a day, does your friend know about this? I'm assuming not, it would drive him into a jealous frenzy. So the best conclusion I can come up with is to talk to her. I know that's probably not the expert opinion you were looking for, but hear me out. You ask her to break up with your best friend, if she loves you she will. If she doesn't, maybe you guessed wrong when you said you dated her best friend. Maybe she thinks of you as her best friend. Scratch that, she said that she doesn't want to be friends anymore right in the middle of all this. Wow, this is a pickle. Still ask her about her feelings. I'm sure she wouldn't be joking if she said she loved you, but figure out what she meant by love. Does she want to date you, or does she love you as a friend. I can see that you're close, so if your so close to where she can tell you she loves you, you should be able to ask her what she meant. If she says the friend thing, then lifes not over, you got yourself the best friend you could find. If she wants to date, then life's even better for you. This has gotten me nervous just thinking about it. If you decide to ask her, tell me how it goes.
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