i havnt seen my boyfriend in two monthes. he just ask me out about 3 weeks ago. im planning on seeing him this weekend. i'm not excatly sure how he is though. like, what kind of girl he likes, i met him at a birthday party. he likes being chased around and stuff so thats a good way to flirt. but i dont know weather to wear like, a lowcut shirt or look all goody 2 shoes. im not asking him cuz that might be a wierd question. i got the pants picked out. they are a navy green color so grass stains wont look as bad. and he hasnt had his first kiss yet. i want that to be me but i dont wanna like just kiss him cuz it might be important to him who his first kiss is and all that stuff. i dont really know what the main question of this is but whatever you can give advice on will help. please and thank you! bye!
signed,
lovin-him
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Courtney answered Tuesday May 11 2004, 9:12 pm: I think you should follow your heart because, if you really want to go for it, you should . Its all up to you . All I have to say is be careful what you do with this boyfriend . I am not trying to put a curse on you or your relationship,( please knock on wood because, I don't want a bad reputation) but I think that you're moving too fast because, the realtionship began three weeks ago and the relationship may not last that long . He may not care as he may seem to care . I think you should let your relationship grow before you start thinking about low cut shirts, kissing, and the tight jeans that are stained . Give it some time and if its right, then go for it . Oh, please rate my answer . I'm Courtney by the way ! [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Tuesday May 11 2004, 5:15 pm: If he hasn't even had his first kiss yet, he probably won't pay much attention to what you wear. He'll be too worried about what you think of him. If you're still worried, wear something inbetween, maybe something casual. I would steer clear of the lowcut on this one. If you're flirtatious, he probably won't think you're a goody-2-shoes. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
OneMan answered Tuesday May 11 2004, 4:19 pm: Call him and tell him that you're not really sure what the two of you will be doing and you want to make sure that you dress appropriately. Then ask him what HE thinks would be best to wear. That way, the question's not weird, and believe me, he will put a little of his own like in the answer, as well. Good luck. Enjoy the date. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
Cephlesto answered Tuesday May 11 2004, 8:54 am: The time frame you have given is confusing. If you haven't seen him in two months, did he ask you three weeks ago over the phone to be his boyfriend? This weekend is the first date between the two of you, I am presuming? Just be yourself, and act like you always would on a date. If you have never been on a date before, just dress like you would if you were going out with friends to some place nice. I believe the phrase is 'Dress-Casual.' You know, something nice looking, but not too formal. Also, do not assume anything. If you want to kiss this guy, as you seem to, do not be too forward, but do not be prudent either. Just 'go with the flow,' if you will. I am sure that if you treat this like a fun first date, be yourself, and let him do the same, things will work out. [ Cephlesto's advice column | Ask Cephlesto A Question ]
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