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ex-bf with a girl flirt
my ex bf has a gf now. but he has recently agreed with my friend that i am beautiful (he didnt even say that when we were going out) and he ends emails with luv ya. and he sent me a lovesick smiley. i am sure he likes me but i dont wanna break up his gf and him. and his sister is gonna kill me if i go back out with him. she thinks im gonna cry over him. even though i havnt cried over him the last 2 times he broke up with me. but i still really really like him. i dont know what to do! what do u think?
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And you would feel how if you were his girlfriend? If he is flirting with you while he's attatched, who knows what he'll be doing if you get back together.
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Hes playin ya girl
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you are in a mess. don't go out with him. don't even talk to him for a while. distance yourself from this boy. you two are having issues.
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Hey, are you the same one who wrote in a couple of weeks ago about your boyfriend "Gary" and his sister "Sierra"? The situation sounds kind of familiar. If you are, I hope you and Sierra worked things out okay.
Whether you're the same person or not, though, I have to say that this guy doesn't sound like he's going to come through for you. He may like you, and he may think you're beautiful -- but if he truly wanted to be *dating* you now, he would be. He wouldn't be out finding new girlfriends.
I'm glad you don't want to break up him and his new girlfriend, but the other reason that you really need to get over this guy is that you should find someone who cares enough about you to try to *keep* you. Not someone who pushes you away time after time. If you let him think that you're going to hang around waiting for him, then he'll never really respect and value you the way you deserve -- at best, you'll just keep repeating the get-together-break-up pattern over and over. Trust me, there are better options out there.
Of course you still really like him -- it takes a while to get over that. But you need to be strong, put a smile on your face, and let him go.
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Well, if you really like him, date him. You've dated him before, and should know what to expect. But, I would be aware of the fact, that you shouldn't get too attatched. Besides, if you do, you might make him feel like he's being suffocated, and he might break up with you. I guess, you could sort of play hard to get. That way, you don't find your life is revolving around him, and he'll feel like you're somewhat of a challenge. And, who knows, he might like that.
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Ok Wow! Well if he is doing this to you then just dump him because then that means that he isn't a real true,loving,caring boyfriend. Find someone else!
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if he's already broken up with you 2 times, why give him the chance to do it a 3rd? Sounds to me like it is time to move on.
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