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my friends crush problems
i have a friend who likes a boy that we are both friends with she wants me to help her get them together but im telling her to get to know him more before a relationship developes now shes sad and doesnt know what to do me to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! signed: help me before i explode im a female she is to and we are both 15
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That is really good to tell your friend that because your right.what if hes a big jerk then your friend would be hurt and you would be hurt. try telling her that.
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Ur approach is a smart one. It would be better if she got to know him a little better. But, if she really feels like she wants to have a relationship with the guy, go ahead and help out a little. First off though, make sure she understands that she's still a human being without the guy, and she doesn't necessarily need to be with him. I made the mistake of thinking that i needed a gf, and my life was miserable then. Take it from experience, it's better to be single and indepedant, then together and dependant.
-AJ
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well if she wants u to help them get together, maybe you can tell her you will, but then help them get to know each other better, and tell her your working on it, it always works for me when i have those kind of problems
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Okay. You're 15 and so is your friend which is making all of this way bigger than it probably is. In part, this is true because likely as not the boy in question is also 15 which makes him relatively useless. Seriously, a 15 year old male will just be confused by this entire situation. Mostly though, if you're all friends and you don't want the guy for yourself (you don't do you?) you were right to tell your friend to get to know the guy better before a, ahem, relationship unfolds.
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I think the advice you gave your friend is great, no matter what age you are. It is always a good idea to get to know the person before you start a relationship. That is what a first date is, just getting to know eachother, and see if you are compatible. Tell her to be pacient and don't rush things, just hang out with him at school and see if a close friendship with him develops, and then she can start thinking about a relationship.
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