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My 'friend' Danielle is so bitching. We were talking on the phone one night and the conversation went like this:
"Everytime I go out with you, I don't meet anyone."
I say:
"It's not my fault and if you want to meet someone than you should talk to them.Look what happened with chris he might have got with you but neither of you really talked to each other cause you both were too shy.You act like your the most straight forward person in the world."
"Yeah but...,(to herself)who can I talk too?"
"About what,me?"
"You won't understand. Who can I talk too?"
"Camille,Ketia,"
"No they won't understand"
"Tell me"
"No, see that's why they were saying in 6th period that--"
" Who was saying what"
For the rest of the coversation I kept pressuring her to tell me till I got upset and hung up on her.
The next days she wouldnt talk to me so I'm not talking to that yellow-ass bitch either.
I'm very mad that she's mad at me. another girl in our group gets on her nerves so after about 2 days she just jumps back into her life and jumps out (Danielle). I hope she doesn't think that she could do that to me(it's been more than 2 days so maybe she wasn't going to anyway.) also every time I call to find out why she's mad, they say she's in the "shower".Dawleen say's that dani said I'm annoying but Shantell says that she's mad cause i'm a hypocrite and she repeated our conversation. I'm always ignoring her because I don't want to feel like she's playing me. I don't know what to do to be her friend again but i don't want her to have the last say.How do i become friends with a stubborn girl without losing the fight.
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I am just like you, I cant handle loseing an arguement, but at the same time I want to remain friends with that person. You need to pretend that none of it happened and go up to her at school and talk. If she acts weird about you just going up to her randomly, ask her if you two can stay friends while forgeting about the arguement.
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Say the magic word. "Sorry." That's all you need to do. If she doesn't forgive you, it will continue to bother her. I know that this is practically losing the fight, but if this continues to go on, you may lose a friend.
-Joce
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