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Texting him
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 4:25 pm
I saw HIM last night. I guess things went well? I really like him, and would love to be more than friends. But I don't know what HE WANTS. It is so hard to tell. I want to hang out with him again sometime soon. What should I text him?
I don't want to sound desperate and I want to sound really "casual and cool"
WHAT DO I SAY in a text??
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How long should I wait to call her?
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 4:07 pm
To make a long story short, I met this girl and we talked for about a half hour on Thursday night. I invited her (casually) to come hang out with a bunch of our friends (pretty casual). We ended up leaving the group last night and talked for a good 2 hours, then I asked her out for next weekend. She gave me kind of a strange answer, saying she had plans but she'd like to work around them, so I would consider that a yes. I texted her after I took her home and she responded with a good message. That's the situation, so here's my question. I was thinking about calling her and inviting her out for dinner but I don't know when. I don't want to seem really desperate but I also dont want to leave her hanging for awhile. Should I call her on Monday...
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Guys
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 3:58 pm
14/f
Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 months. It was great in the beginning like how it usually is for most people. Then you know, later its not as great but I didn't mind it after the first month. But now its kinda changing. Like we don't really talk anymore, he'll just stand by me or whatever. We don't see each other alot since we don't go to the same school. Then I'm just getting confused because he goes to another school and his friend, who are also my friend, would come up to me and say, "you better watch your guy, those girls are wow" or something like that. Then I'm thinking like, "does he still like me?" and I don't want to ask him because for one thing, I'm super shy, seco...
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counting months
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 12:30 pm
this is going to sound retarded but....i need your help. my boyfriend asked me out on january 15th. is one month february 15th, 4 weeks from when he asked me out, or 28 days since hes asked me out?!?
thank you haha and sorry for not knowing this! xoxo
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Confused on his words.
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 11:59 am
What does it mean when my boyfriend says "You make my life real"?
Thanks.
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this dream:-.(
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 11:05 am
i had this dream.... that me n my friend were going to this beach place and my friend was driving us in a big white work truck. well when we got there there were some guys working on like construction. They like were staring @ me and one took my picture. we got back in the truck and they were still staring @ me. then 3 guys(teens)came out of a house and a guy showed them a picture and then then the guys started walking to the truck and then all of a sudden we were oin a random house with them. i cant really remember what happened there but when we were leaving i hugged the first guy and we randomley kissed and the other guys were like "oh, so he gets a hug+kiss. weres our hug and kiss?" so i hugged another guy who didnt want to ki...
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My Wife wants to broaden our horizons
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 6:13 am
My wife and I have been married for a little over 2 years. Recently, my wife told me she wanted to have three somes. With girls or guys, she said it didn’t matter to her (she is bi-sexual). However, she stressed the idea that me watching her with another guy then joining in really turns her on. I have done this 2 guys 1 girl thing in the past with a former girl friend, and it worked o.k. for a while, but had a disastrous end. My wife assures me this wont happen to us, because she is just adventurous and her heart belongs to me. I really want to make her happy, but I’ve had bad experiences in this department before. Thanks for any help,
Guy #1
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im beyond depressed. almost over the edge.
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 12:50 am
i dont even get whats wrong with me most of the time. sometimes, everything will be fine. like, ill be hanging out with my boyfriend and his house or at the store or something. and then suddenly, all my energy and happiness gets sucked out and im up in space and i feel like dying and he keeps asking me whats wrong and i keep telling him nothing. most of the time it is just nothing, but its bringing a wedge in between our relationship.
i love him to death, and i think he loves me, too. but whenever i get upset or depressed, i dont like talking. i just want to sit and stare at something or just lay down and go to sleep. so whenever he says "i love you" i just nod and say "mmhmm" and he thinks im mad at him B...
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how did he do it?
Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 12:09 am
k so my ex and i went out for 10 months. we separated for four months and got back together for 2 weeks!lol..yeah, that is a short time. He wanted to ask me a naughty question, but he was too nervous, so i kept guessing....one of the guesses was " to blow you? cuz that is fkin disgusting....i would never do that..." then he was acting a little weird. but then he got back to normal the next day. He never asked me the question. We were going to hang out one day, but i got grounded, and so he decided to call up some other girls to hang out with....i was making him jealous a lot...like telling him about guys hitting on me and wanting to hang out with me and stuff like that...he would get really jealous.....so i broke up with him becau...
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This long distance is hard
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 11:59 pm
Hello, my girlfriend and I live relatively far away but we manage to see each other like maybye 3 times a month(in person). But another girl recently told me she had serious feelings for me and though i talk to my gf every night on webcam i can't help getting feelings for this other girl becuase i see her every day its hard to get over it.Now those feelings have gone away and i am back in that trance with my girlfriend. but i can't shake the feeling im gonna fall for another girl. Help?
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Posted Friday February 6 2009, 11:06 pm
ok heres the deal..
theres this guy that i talk to & i like him and he knows that. He talks to other girls & goes out with them..and once he gets it leaves them. I kinda feel down because he doesnt seem to want a relationship with me & im not ugly..like i get alot of attention from guys...but idk maybe he doesnt want to hurt me. i need someones persective on this.
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wanna be more than friends
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 11:06 pm
To start this off i liek this boy oka, and he knows how much i like him right. But there you see there are like two other girls that also like him. You see iven been liking him for awhile now liek maybe alomost 2 years and havent done noting about it. All because i was shy and afraid. You see we have this class together and he do somtimes be messing with me and flirting and stuff. And i guess i kinda got a lilttle comfortable being around him now. But you see there also these tow gurls that like him to . And they be talking to him and everything. And i dont know what else to do, its like they have a speical bond to him. And i dont know how to top that. How can i make it more between me and him. Instead of just messing around with eachother.
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Why am I so obsessive over celebrities?
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 10:17 pm
I am in love with a celebrity. I met him and we talked for a little and I TOUCHED HIM. But I'm like obsessed with him but hes not really that famous. I have a legitimate crush on him. How do I deal with this? Is there way we can get married? =]
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what to write?
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 9:09 pm
what can i write in a card to my bf of 8 months mom for her bday. i know her not very well but i want it to be sweet and caring still.
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What do I write in my crush's Valentine's Day Card?
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 8:40 pm
Every year I make tons and tons of Valentines. This year I'm doing the same and my sort of crush is one of the people I'm giving them to. He knows alot of people are getting one so he won't feel awkward about it, but I want to really subtly hint at him that I kinda like him. I plan on using a few inside jokes, I just need something that is flirty and ambiguous enough for him to interpret as either "she kinda likes me" or "she's just being as playful as she always is." HELP!
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I need to get over him!
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 7:54 pm
So, there's this kid that I've been talking to for a while. We used to be totally into each other, but we weren't dating because of how far we lived from each other (an hour) and the both of us can't drive. He's also sixteen and I'm fourteen.
We used to talk a lot, but he figured out that he liked this other girl who went to his high school, so he just forgot about me and dated her. We stopped talking for a couple months and he still occassionally talks to me. I recently told him I never got over him and it's been about five months since he told me he liked the other girl. Sometimes I ask him if he's completely over me and he goes, "Idk." So, that gives absolutely no help whatsoever. He dated the girl for about a month unti...
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I just don't understand himm.......!
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 7:34 pm
Okay well I finally got over my ex,because of this new kid that came to my bus stop. He is totally my type and im totally crushing on him. So i started to flirt and after school i invited him to hang out with me and some of the neighborhood kids at the bus stop. he agreed and then it ended up that they all were going to be late. So it was just me and him. Of course i was excited and he looked pretty happy too. But i was in shorts and a tanktop and he looks at me and says "Dress code again?" and he was flirting so i said "Duh, I would wear this to school if possible" and he stopped and so i stopped to and he looks me up and down and say "Well i don't know why im complaining kuz i like those shorts a lot" and so ...
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is he showing this particular sign?
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 5:10 pm
16f
I talk to the guy (call him R)I like every other day in gym while my friend (her T) is there, & just recently a little more everyday in another class, but i'll get back to that later. A bit less than 6 weeks ago, when I was still contemplating whether I liked R or not, I stupidly told T in gym about another guy (call him M) I had liked while R was there. About a week or so after this I was sure I liked R & I was totally over the other guy. At one point I realized that I had to make sure R knew that I didn't like the other guy so 2 weeks ago I told both him and T. So I figured that was that. Today in gym me, R, & T were all talking, & randomly R says "So what's going on with M" & I could tell by ...
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Im starting to like my ex boyfriend again.
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 3:53 pm
I broke up with my ex boyfriend around November.Everytime I talk to him,I feel the same way I felt for him when we were going out.But the fact is that I've liked this other guy for 2 years now exactly(I know pathetic right?).What i wanna know is...why am I feeling like this? And my ex also told me that he still likes me.
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I like him,ugh yes another one of these questions!
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 3:19 pm
Okay heres the situation
I like this kid-i never realized i liked him until like two days ago. He's not shy,but he's kind of quiet sometimes.He gets good grades and what not. He's in two of my classes,we sit right next to eachother but we only talk sometimes. He's a really good person,one of the VERY few guys that isn't a player or full of himself in my school. The thing is-a LOT of girls like him. he's not full about it-but it bugs me of course. I'm the kind of person when a lot of girls like the guy i like -i instantly try to not like him anymore. but its so hard! He does flirty things with me randomly and we do have funny conversations. But its akward sometimes! And its all because i get choked up with how much i like him...
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