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whats going on


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 4:31 pm

my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year,
we love eachother so much and i could never be happier
the other week we broke up because he was confused and wanted a break,a few hours later he told me he couldnt be with out me and things werent the same with out me. but now he is acting strange he barley kissed me today and was not acting himself, the night before he said he loved me so much but is confused, but than the night before everything was fine and he told me he didnt want to ever break up.its really scaring me.i know hes a guy and things like this happen with guys, but i dont want anything bad to happen to us again, how can i save things and make them better, i dont no what to do

please help me, thanks ):

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I don't know what to do....


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 4:25 pm

Hi,
My name is Cassie and I have needed someone to answer me...well here's the story i am in love with this guy, and he says he loves me back, but the thing is he has hurt me on many occations and he also loves someone else. He has also asked this girl to marry him...we are only 14 & 15 but i truly love him and no matter what i cannot get rid of him emotionally. A lot of my friends and my sisters say that it will never last with him and his fiance because they are only 14-years-old but, i don't know i think they are really in love. I am also tired of people saying that we are not in love and that we don't know what we are talking about because we do and we love eachother, the only problem is he loves teo people and is engaged to ...

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DRAMA


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 10:43 am

18 male
ok so this past weekend i was hanging out with a couple friends noah, john, megan... and i really like noah well theres one problem hes straight... anyway i ended up making out with his best friend john to make him jelouse well yeah that didnt work so the next day i ended up haveing sex with my best friend chris to get over noah... is what i did right? what should i do?

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In good fun flirting with ex


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 10:29 am

For the most part my and Alex's communication is great we use I statements Im feeling I will, I need, and we are respectful of each others opinions. But Alex and his ex have been flirting alot lately. One day when alex was at work she texted him, "Im bored entertain me," so he replied "come out to the shop Im alone." And not even two days later I caught him talking to our 1 month old about how he was going to introduce his ex to her as "Aunt Alesha" I told him I was uncomfortable with that. So I asked him to stop talking to her for a few months because that was a major boundary line that he had just crossed. I told him it didnt have to be for forever, just until our lives slowed down. I just had our daughter,...

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hooked up with other guy?


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 10:00 am

Okay so i started talking to this guy, andy, and like we hung out twice and kinda hooked up but like thats all that happened. we talk a lot and stuff but i were not like dating or exclusive..we've never talked about that and i think it would be way to early anyway..but i hooked up with this other guy and i'm not sure if i should like feel bad about andy..i'm not like going to tell him but..since we're not dating or exclusive do you think its okay to hook up with other guys still?

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Telling him i love him


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 12:15 am

I really dont know how to tell my boyfriend I love him...honestly, I dont want to be the first one to say it, but i really want him to know i do.

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Positions to be filled...


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 12:13 am

I am curious to know what is the position most couples do when they have sex for the first time (with each other)? Anyone know of any good sexual positions for the times after that?? I was just curious, because this came up in discussion earlier today and want to know some other opinions... =]
Thanks.
I rate high for good answers!!!
-MM-

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first loves


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 11:26 pm

I dated a boy for about 9 months three years ago. We were 'in love', even though we were very young. about 7 months after we broke up we dated again for about 3 but we were always fighting so it didnt last long... now two years after we finally broke up and i've had only 2 kind of serious relationships since, he has had one; he told her he loved her. We never had sex because we were really young but he had sex with his last girlfriend (the one he loved).

Now i am talking to him a lot lately and i hate that i'm falling back in love with him but its nothing that i can help. the only friend that knows about it hates that i am falling for him again but i can't help it.

should i tell him that i like him again and po...

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Help!!!


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 10:51 pm

Ok, so I asked this guy out that I met at the place where I used to work. It was actually quite memorable since he is the FIRST guy whose number I have ever asked for. Well, we started talking on the phone everyday, but about 2 weeks after talking I lost my phone, so for about a week I didn’t have contact with him at all. When I was still in the process in getting a new phone, I went over to one of my friend’s house, and my friend Sarah* said that she knew him AND also knew the fact that he has a fiancé. To be honest I was completely shocked because in a MONTH he had never mentioned or even hinted anything about a girlfriend, much less a fiancé. When I confronted him about it, he said that I never asked him, so he didn’t feel he had...

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Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 10:35 pm

17.
male.
this is long; forgive me.

so.
i started dating my current girlfriend, julia, back in september. a month later, i went to six flags with a bunch of my guy friends, a bunch of her girl friends, but not her; she had to work. one of her friends, emily, was very obviously flirting with me, and i told everyone that i was not flirting back.

emily and i were talking on facebook the other day. she told me that she had been purposefully flirting with me back then and that she had feelings for me.

remember how i said that i didn't flirt back?
i did.
and i know; it was wrong.

back then, i legitimately thought that i should have waited on asking juli...

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a friend


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 10:19 pm

m/15

Well I want to ask this one girl that I havn't talked to in a long time to go and do something with me, but I don't want to make it awkward because I havn't seen her in a long time and rarely talk to her anymore but we used to like each other when we went to the same school, but I don't what she's been doing lately. How can i ask her without being awkward?


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stay with first love?


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 10:06 pm

Hey im 18/f ive been dating my first love off and on since i was like 15. We were really in love the first year of our relationship then things started to get not so great and we started fighting all the time. Sometimes we wouldnt even know what we were fighting about. This past year we've broken up and gotten back together quite a bit. My mom really doesnt approve of him but i love him and thats all that matters. Recently we got into a fight and we started seeing other people. (dating for about a week) he started dating someone else to. Now we're talking again and talking about getting back together. I really am tired of fighting and so is he but i love him to death! Should i keep trying to make it work or move on? :(

Sorry so long but thank you for reading!

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high school sweethearts


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 9:26 pm

Do you think it's really possible for a couple to last through high school and college and eventually get married? I always thought people who were married and were high school sweethearts was the cutest thing.

Also, when me and my boyfriend go to college we'll be about four hours away from each other. How hard is it to keep a relationship going in this type of situation? I don't know how I'll deal with a long term relationship. As it is we live 20 minutes away from each other and see each other every other day and if for some reason we can't get together I'll start missing him so much it hurts.

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understandable or no?


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 9:09 pm

my boyfriend has lost his motivation to do like anything and hes never allowed to go out anymore because hes been soo lazy and never does his chores and homework anymore and he knows that if he doesnt he wont be able to see me...i feel so bad that he has this but then again i feel bad because im not a good enough motivation to do a couple simple chores...i talked to him already...what should i do to help him?

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boyfriendd


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 9:00 pm

i want to do super nice things for my boyfriend because he's going through some hard times with anxiety and things and i wanna do anything i can to make him feel better. his birthday is coming up too and i want to do something nice and cute for him but nothing too over the top you know? he's turning 17 and i don't know what to get/do for him. i'm not really into those love games like "one free kiss" or whatever, cause he knows i'll give him one pretty much whenever he wants and vice versa haha, so any ideas for what to do for him? we've been dating for 8 monthss.

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Am I pathetic??


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 8:44 pm

13/F

Okay so here is the thing, I have had a crush on the same boy for over two YEARS... And well Im kind of thinking that is a little pathetic...

Here is some background info. It was a completely innocent crush for the first yearish part. He is super cute, he didnt know me at all, you know the deal... But then we really got to know eachother. I opened up to him more than I ever thought I could. That was in the summer. We continued to be close throughout the year but we have never been able to act on it. He says he likes me but he can't date until he is 16 (he is 14 now) and what do I do? I mean I really like him but I can't just wait around for ANOTHER two years, nor does he expect me to, but I just can't see...

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cheating or no?


Posted Sunday March 29 2009, 4:46 pm

if you're drunk and a guy takes advantage of you ..like he kisses you but then you push him off..is it cheating?

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Place to meet women


Posted Saturday March 28 2009, 11:09 pm

Hey!
So I think it's an age old question, but I could always use more opinions preferably from women.
I'm a fit 21 year old in College, but I'm tired of the whole "college" dating scene so I'd like to meet a mature type of women. I'm not looking just to pick up, I'd like a relationship.
Where's a good place you'd recommend other than coffee shops to meet women??
-Thanks a bunch!

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Should I ask out this girl or my best friend?


Posted Saturday March 28 2009, 9:50 pm

18/M
Ok, here is my dilema. I have a crush both on my best friend and this sophomore.
My best friend is a senior like I am. We hang out a lot. She is single. She is really cool. But I'm afraid that if I ask her out or tell her how I feel and she doesn't feel the same that it will be awkward and we won't be as good of friends.

This sophomore is really awesome. Like I like her a lot. I recently asked her to prom and she said yes, pretty excitedly. Then I asked her out to the movies, She said that she would love to go, but she had to ask her mom. Which is understandable. We never ended up going to the movies, but it wasn't until later that I found out she had a boyfriend, even when she excitedly said yes to prom ...

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Why


Posted Saturday March 28 2009, 7:33 pm

for the past two and a half years, i had been dating my bestfriend, he was everything to me. we were bestfriends before we started dating for a year. Recently we broke up, and then i found out he was cheated on me multiple times over summer. and now, a week later he has a girlfriend. it is so hard to deal with this, i h avent been single for two and a half years. and its so hard because i was always with him, and i was friends with him before, and the friends i had before there gone and moved on with there lives. and the friends i have no, aren't reliable. i'm trying to make new friends but no one seems to care, or want to hangout with me.

what am i supposed to do? like i feel so lonely.
i just want to get over him ...

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