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I don't know what to do....
Hi,
My name is Cassie and I have needed someone to answer me...well here's the story i am in love with this guy, and he says he loves me back, but the thing is he has hurt me on many occations and he also loves someone else. He has also asked this girl to marry him...we are only 14 & 15 but i truly love him and no matter what i cannot get rid of him emotionally. A lot of my friends and my sisters say that it will never last with him and his fiance because they are only 14-years-old but, i don't know i think they are really in love. I am also tired of people saying that we are not in love and that we don't know what we are talking about because we do and we love eachother, the only problem is he loves teo people and is engaged to one of them. Unfortunately that one is not me. I mean i do not want to get married this young but i can imagine my life with him and its amazing. So please help me with what to do..I love him to much to get rid of him, like completely out of my life, but at the same time i don't want him to keep hurting me.
Thank You,
Cassie
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i think that you need to think about it like this you should not be another persons second choice because then if you are going to want to be treated like a second choice then you are just going to be putting your self down and that is not good for your confidence
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It can be pretty hard to deal with someone you love loving someone else, but it's wrong of him to try to juggle two girls at once. I know how it feels to feel like you're so in love & you'll never get over them, but you're so young. I got engaged when I was 17 & I couldn't imagine life without him. Then he cheated on me, but I loved him so much that I couldn't even break up with him. But after a few months of that weighing on my conscious, I thought long & hard about it, & even though it hurt, I did what was best for me & broke up with him.
What I'm trying to say is, it may feel like you'll never get over him, but you will. It takes time, of course, but just spend that time having fun & being a teenager. Eventually you'll meet someone that will be yours & only yours, & you won't have to worry about things like this.
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